We don't plan because no matter what we plan it isn't enough
2026-05-12 17:16:34
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prettybluesummers :
Im 6’4 I don’t have to plan anything
2026-05-12 10:53:15
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MelissaM22 :
It’s not about what the date is or where it is. It’s about putting in the effort.
2026-05-12 06:10:13
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Noachgc :
Nah we broke
2026-05-12 00:35:43
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LacklusterVideo :
In your scenario she missed the opportunity to respond in a way that gave him an opening to “make a plan.” Instead of a vague response, simply say “I’m available and would like to see you.”
2026-05-12 12:20:58
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Brian :
Because ive been stood up a couple times and now i dont think dating is even worth it🤷🏻♂️
2026-05-12 12:32:16
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Melissa :
Last date I went on he asked what I had planned for the weekend.. I told him I don’t know, What are you planning for us? He had the date planned in 5 minutes
2026-05-12 19:27:50
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azuksa_456 :
I don’t know you bro. You get a date after I know you like me
2026-05-12 11:25:59
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Rye Guy :
I use to just do dinner dates but I've grown to enjoy making plans for like the whole day. I agree that might be a bit much for a first date but I'll pitch my ideas with like an itinerary and see if they like it.
2026-05-12 17:31:55
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Sashhhaaaaaaaaaaaa🫠 :
I was talking to a guy for about a month, good vibe back and forth. We were talking about seeing each other and I said that sounds great, let me know when and where. Left me on read for two weeks, responded yesterday with sorry I had a migraine, let’s get dinner tomorrow at 6. He knows my schedule cause we’ve discussed this already, I already have a date at that time, you deadass ghosted me for two weeks. You don’t like me or don’t want to date, don’t bother me. I replied sorry I have plans cause I’m no longer interested.
2026-05-13 11:59:47
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Straight_Outta_Fulffy_Unicorns :
I plan dates, I get a confirmation on her end, I make sure to solidify and confirm the date atleast an hour prior to the date. Then I don’t hear from her ever again. We aren’t the problem ma’am 😅
2026-09-28 22:26:28
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🌟 :
I've said "Of course, give me a time and place and I will see you then" the response "Bet" or "Great!"
2026-05-13 12:31:36
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Drake Becka :
I hear you. You’re not wrong. It just gets frustrating when planning and effort doesn’t get reciprocated.
2026-06-24 20:53:44
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John :
OK let me preface with I’ve never been on a date so all this hypothetical: would going to the art museum together followed by brunch and then a walk by the park be an acceptable first date?
2026-05-12 23:48:33
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Merrhall :
Talking for 8 weeks with no date is nuts. I wouldn’t even respond
2026-05-14 00:51:08
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wholejarofaquaphor :
We want your input. We want you to actually like the places we choose.
2026-05-12 23:17:39
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RedIsekaiRanger :
Nobody wants to date me, so I don’t plan dates. Glad I could simplify it for you 👍
2026-05-13 12:56:52
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⩜⃝ proud cheater ⛧🐦⬛ :
cuz it’s not my date, it’s our date, i want u to have a good time too
2026-05-12 17:24:57
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ajeremyhopkins🍉🇺🇸 :
the statement "I don't have any plans, we'll see" is not an invitation for him to offer plans. he heard it as "I don't have any plans, and I don't want to do anything with you." you're saying he's not interested, but he's hearing she's not interested.
2026-05-12 18:06:44
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Denzel :
I've been stood up too many times, or when I do plan something, they take FOREVER to reply so the window passes and I end up doing something else.
2026-06-13 14:27:19
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user8507420976371 :
Idk personally she sounded uninterested like if I was asked that I would said “nothing much planned are you tryna do something?” Showing interest in maybe hanging out that’s a definite green to hangout
2026-06-02 19:32:31
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Megaknighter :
I’m not putting a ton of effort into a date these days
2026-08-25 18:35:01
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speedy2173 :
We aren’t obligated to lol
2026-08-05 06:11:29
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Niko :
Apex fallacy that men has options so he doesn’t have to impress her. A man on her level would try to impress her.
2026-08-15 01:05:20
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