3. First date we are nervous. Second date we are just intro-ing. By 3 if I’m still not digging it, we’re done.
2026-05-12 00:42:58
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Ivona :
1 date is more than enough for me. If i don't like someone, nothing will make me change my mind, not even 100 dates
2026-05-12 14:01:11
980
i__rtfm :
Probably 2 but realistically one
2026-05-12 04:21:09
997
Eevee :
1st date is to get to see the person and my only evaluation after that date is "am I excited to see them for a second time?"
2nd date I evaluate "do we connect on the same levels, are there at least some similarities that we can go from there? Am I interested in getting to know them better?"
3rd date evaluate "do we have the same values and long-term goals?"
After date 3 I'm usually locked in if it's still a yes
2026-05-12 10:15:38
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user2738667057819 :
It’s frustrating because i genuinely like most of the people im going on dates with. They’re great people, I enjoy them as humans, I just don’t feel a romantic connection or any spark with any of them. Could romance develop in time? Maybe… but is it fair to drag it out on a maybe? No… so I don’t want to date anymore 😭
2026-05-13 12:06:46
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the idiot :
last guy i dated apparently needed 6 dates to figure out he “didn’t feel a connection” with me :)))
2026-05-12 08:36:42
113
Nadja :
If it’s not a hell yes it’s a no
2026-05-18 21:08:28
71
grossstadt.biene :
I need one second and working eyes lol
2026-05-12 21:00:08
68
Sammylobo :
I only need 1 date to know
2026-05-12 18:21:10
9
b :
2 dates
2026-05-15 02:35:04
12
HighOnADHDv4 :
Within 5 minutes I know
2026-05-12 18:02:15
60
Lux | Finance and Home :
I know by the end of date 1 if I'm attracted to someone, I know by the end of date 3 if I like them as a person, I know by the end of 2 months if we're compatible
2026-05-27 09:08:16
8
Ex🖤 :
10 seconds of meeting u i know
2026-05-12 06:21:13
45
Lili :
5 mins of voice call enough
2026-05-12 15:39:20
39
David Dell'Angelo :
3 dates, similar to 3 strikes and you're out. (unless the first date was terrible) By the third date you'll know if the relationship is developing or not and can let them know you don't want to continue seeing them
2026-05-12 02:48:56
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Siany :
1st date 🤣🤣
2026-05-12 22:11:44
12
Lightbearer 🌈♾️ :
1 date is enough for me
2026-05-12 13:24:45
22
riven :
it takes my 3s
2026-05-12 10:30:07
20
Kenny Gjerstad :
2-3 dates to validate or invalidate initial feelings. If you’re exploring long term potential, I believe it takes 6-7 dates for that sense of familiarity and chemistry to kick in. Sometimes you just need to go on different kinds of dates or put yourselves in different environments to know for sure.
2026-05-12 17:41:00
19
vionqa :
8 i got bored and have nothing to do
2026-05-14 09:07:02
17
ReganQ :
By date 3 you can tell
2026-05-14 05:05:32
6
miles :
5 min easily
2026-05-13 15:57:58
13
Sadie Wellmaker :
When I was dating, I went on a lot of first dates. One guy I went on 2 with and called it off. There was only first date that really left me wanting to see that person again and now we've been together almost a year
2026-05-16 19:32:59
7
Thats not my name :
1 but sometimes less.
2026-05-12 18:37:07
8
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