@roxannakemppainen: Keeping Pat as content and safe and secure as possible is the goal, so it's frustrating when hes not feeling that way. Talking softly, humming, rubbing his shoulders and chest, holding his hand are ways that I use to settle him. He's not upset tonight, just very unsettled with his hands, feet, and body language. Top that with been non communicative...oye. It's one thing this disease will do...What happens to him affects me too, so this disease is a double whammy...Much love all! #awareness #EarlyOnsetAlzheimers #Grief #Dementia #thelonggoodbye