Hailey OBrien
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Tuesday 12 May 2026 00:33:52 GMT
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haley davis :
It may be easier in a sense, but as a SAHM I couldn’t imagine the emotional impact on working moms who don’t have the choice to stay at home with their babies. I would absolutely dread leaving my babies with someone else! 😭 all moms are super hero’s 🥰
2026-05-12 00:40:39
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mildlymelissa :
I am an insurance examiner for parental leave. I have seen all the circumstances- moms who are ready to go back to work, moms who would do anything to stay home longer, moms who say I’m not going back, moms who need to go back to work for their mental health, moms who need to go back for financial reasons, I’ve seen it all. And my heart goes out to all of them. Do what you need to do to be a happy mom. Happy moms have happy kids. We need to support moms whatever they decide. ♥️
2026-05-12 02:54:25
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HomeOfSimba :
I have a colleague who did her mat leave a year before I did mine and when I asked her about the transition going back, she said yes it sucks leaving her baby but she got to have her breakfast quietly at work, take coffee breaks, and use her brain for something other than “mom-ing.” That put it into perspective for me because we sacrifice such simple joys when we’re home with kiddos (not that kids aren’t a joy but you know what I mean😅)
2026-05-12 01:07:42
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Ashley :
lit would be so much easier if I weren’t a nurse. I go to work take care of people I come home take care of a little person. I do it once a week to talk to adults and keep my license though.
2026-05-12 00:40:22
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g_88988488 :
Good luck!! FTM on mat leave and found this so helpful! I’ve def been struggling with the lack of structure.
2026-05-12 11:12:49
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user8984708596505 :
I was a SAHM for 7 years. There are entire month blocks, maybe years, that are gone from my mind. I’m
2026-05-13 05:08:34
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kd093022 :
I was a stay at home mom for 10 months and chose to go back because I craved structure and routine. Luckily I took a position that I can go into the office whenever I want and wfh whenever I want so I can be home but also go in when I feel like I need social interaction and adult conversation. Shout out to stay at home moms, it is HARD!
2026-05-12 13:08:23
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Elizabeth Zeuschner :
I have 4 kids. 14, 12, 10, and 8. Always worked full time. There are many seasons of parenthood and every mom and kid is different. Advice is to consistently evaluate what's working for you in the moment and design work solutions that work for you and the kind of mom you want/need to be.
2026-05-12 10:47:01
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Courtny :
Different perspective here!! I started being a SAHM during my last trimester. I know some moms feel this way and that’s totally valid. But being at home with my baby has been the best job I’ve ever had. I’ve never felt more aligned and more purposeful in my daily life than I have since being a sahm. Doesn’t mean I think it’s easy, but I feel I found my best self as a mother 😌 (coming from someone who didn’t even know if she wanted to be a mom)
2026-05-12 13:41:40
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gina :
hi hailey, out of curiosity how were you able to get maternity leave for that long? (if u dnt mind me asking 🙂)
2026-05-12 05:12:38
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Hope :
I went back to work last week and am such a better mom for it.
2026-05-12 01:40:58
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Taraday :
I taught swimming lessons to little kids all day long and lots of bubble blowing and high fives.... I even went on a date and I was nervous he was going to kiss me. So I gave him a high five.
2026-05-12 05:24:26
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itsjill.ly :
I’m a first time mom that’s able to stay home. Honestly, after having my son, I’ve wanted to just apologize to every mother I’ve ever known for not understanding or supporting them better. Being a mom is so much more mentally consuming than I ever imagined. Props to all mamas out there.
2026-05-12 12:49:36
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Shannon :
I worked as a nanny for a few years and I know what you mean. Being a stay at home mom can be isolating. One family I nannied for let me take the kids out to the library, play dates, the park etc. where I could meet and chat with other nannies or moms. Whereas a different family would not allow me to leave the house with the child except to go in the backyard from 7:30am-5:00pm. I had to quit after several months because the isolation was making me so depressed. We need to have human connections outside of the household, community is essential!
2026-05-12 01:13:29
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Lucy Benefield :
I go to work so I can rest for real 😭
2026-05-12 00:38:40
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Tiffany Lee :
I think I just felt heard. Thank you! A lot of people don’t get it and you just hit exactly how I’m feeling on the nail. I just couldn’t do it as a SATHM. I love having a balance of both worlds. Thanks for sharing.
2026-05-12 04:21:41
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LaurenChisholm :
This is eye opening. Thank you for sharing!
2026-05-12 04:57:50
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Jaime Webber :
The honesty here is so on point! Great job Momma! ❤️💪
2026-05-12 03:28:38
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Ciera :
Agreed!!!
2026-05-12 02:11:27
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Kaera :
100% agree! I am fortunate to have a very flexible job so that helps when I miss him. But every day I’m still so excited to get him home and cuddle. But I also need some separation for myself.
2026-05-12 01:41:53
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arii_zep :
I’m a SAHM, but I also work from home 🥹 It’s so hard trying to disconnect the two from each other! But, I’m just taking it day by day 🥲
2026-05-12 01:15:03
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gggdddsvufwry3686 :
4 paid 2 unpaid?
2026-05-14 01:23:30
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dawnellen78 :
I love my son but I also needed to be with adults. You are 100% correct that you get to change your mindset and I think happy mom = happy babies.
2026-05-13 13:24:26
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amyonorato :
My kids are 27 and 24. I was a teacher when they were little. I always welcomed going back to work after having them. I was fortunate to have a relative take care of them and we were able to have that plan in place before having them. I know that is a luxury that not everyone has.
2026-05-13 01:19:20
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A-Kandz21 :
Preachhhhhhh mama!!!
2026-05-12 00:37:54
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