@lifewithlex444: thought I was “picky” in dating…turns out I was compulsively analyzing every emotion, every doubt, every ick, & every interaction trying to find certainty. oh how I love OCD🤗 #ruminationocd #symptomsofocd #ocdawareness #neverhadaboyfriend #datingstruggles

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lachelle_77
La Chelle :
Are you a life path 7?
2026-05-12 04:24:45
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kimpossiible
Kim :
I hate dating bc when I like someone I turn crazy
2026-05-13 22:05:26
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villlageidiot
grace :
so how do i know if it’s rumination or just me being a chronic over thinker and always jumping to conclusions. because i feel so normal until i get into some form of relationship and then i go insane
2026-05-14 03:59:13
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stalechip
stalechip :
I always feel relieved and less exhausted when im single vs in a relationship
2026-05-14 07:41:39
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frevkles
frevkles🍒 :
hey so how do i fix this ?
2026-05-14 05:56:54
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ionevenknowchile
madeleine :
context: im diagnosed OCD but i’m 8 months into my relationship with my boyfriend and let me say it gets better. for a while i was OBSESSED with him and i mean every single waking moment was me going in my head and through my thoughts about all of our interactions and all of his words and his micro expressions and wow i mean it was terrible. all of my time and energy was spent on how to make our relationship “better” when in reality it’s the most healthy relationship ever. recently i’ve learned to adapt to the saying “if it’s meant to be, then it will be” which has helped. it allows me stop fixating on what’s going to happen to our relationship if i don’t XYZ, but to just live in the moment and enjoy our time. it’s only been about a week of me feeling this way, but hey that’s better than it’s been the last 8 months!!! ( ^ω^ ) there’s hope for us OCD girlies! (
2026-05-14 11:26:57
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gen_19x
Genesis 🩷🌸🩺 :
But how do you know if you actually don’t really connect/like with someone or if it’s just a stable & safe attraction that you’re overthinking 😭
2026-05-13 05:40:59
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lala_libra_
lala_libra_ :
I have this but I don’t obsess about attraction and chemistry. I obsess over whether a guy is emotionally available, trustworthy, safe, or not.
2026-05-14 12:02:34
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treezahhh
treezahhh :
this is how my brain works 😅
2026-05-12 05:00:54
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clairescho
claire :
I feel you. I basically tried to break things off with my partner after our first date because it was so wonderful but I was convinced it “wasn’t right” because I wasn’t infatuated. it definitely hurt her feelings that I seemed unsure, but she was kind and understanding in a way that nobody else ever had been. that was in 2022. we’re getting married next spring :)
2026-05-14 04:31:18
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cruvll
† :
is this play about us🫪
2026-05-14 15:27:30
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jaycelizardd
jaycelizardd :
Is saturn in ur 5th or 7th house by any chance. Or squaring or opposite your venus? Lmfao just curious 😁
2026-05-13 10:24:11
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giantlizardmonster
youbetterCHILL :
“Pretend you’re watching a movie and you’re repeatedly asking yourself am I enjoying this” mind you this is how I be watching sometimes djdjsjsusushs
2026-05-14 20:49:27
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grainofbrice
grainofbrice :
The way this hit me like a freight train
2026-05-15 14:14:26
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fm1897
FM :
I think you just diagnosed me
2026-05-14 02:16:25
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smallsmallverysmallfrog
💕 :
not right now alexa
2026-05-14 18:31:36
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mothwench
Moth Wench :
are you me
2026-05-14 16:52:14
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adris.world
Adriana :) :
The call is coming from inside my house 😭
2026-05-14 20:36:43
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okaygrumpy
andro :
I feel like I need a cigarette
2026-05-16 22:03:24
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farrellsierra
farrellsierra :
Ooooohhhhh, so THAT’S what’s wrong w me. 😬
2026-05-16 18:32:19
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abbyonmytoes
abbyonmytoes :
This can be difficult to put into words, and you did it beautifully. Myself, and many people I know resonate, so thank you for your openness and vulnerability!
2026-05-13 09:36:51
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howreeemseesit
tamale fairy :
This is my new comfort video btw
2026-05-15 23:48:11
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favoritesenpaii
Taylor Senpai 💕 :
Please do more bc now I’m scared fren 😭
2026-05-18 13:45:32
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amberiety
Amber 🌸 :
Hmmm these things sound like what I deal with but I don’t wanna dig deep into myself so I’m just gonna scroll 😭
2026-05-14 00:48:50
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cherry.colaaaa
cherry.colaaaa :
I fear we have the same thing. I just gave up
2026-05-12 03:00:04
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