@myahayesss: Met my best friend and biggest supporter shortly after. Remember sometimes the harder thing to do is to choose yourself. #change #breakup ❤️
Ooo this is deep. My ex still wears the clothes I bought him and I redecorated everything and got a new body, wardrobe.
2026-05-14 06:35:57
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T3_Trains :
Idk, sometimes it’s just that yall know ball. My gf gave me her pillowcase and comforter when she upgraded and if we break up I’m keeping it. That’s some high quality sleep hygiene 🤏
2026-05-14 17:28:01
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js.marcoo :
doesn’t mean he’s necessarily stuck or still frozen in time, what if the clothes she got were actually comfortable or nice to wear out, even then, guys js simply dont need to rearrange their whole life js to feel happier with themselves
2026-06-17 13:20:31
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luckygirl4evr :
In 2018 I left my ex and moved far away. He recently called me and it was sad to hear nothing in his life had improved or changed he was as if he had been frozen in time right where I left him. So glad I left
2026-05-14 08:05:11
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Yuh :
Idk if minor stuff like this is that deep tho, like im not going to get rid of the shoes or shirts she gave me bc for one I like them and 2nd they’re just nice things. Who cares if she gave them to me.
2026-05-14 18:14:30
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Antifa :
What’s wrong with keeping useful stuff? Why spend money replacing things? (Ofc talking about a respectful breakup)
2026-06-09 09:38:22
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ListenToJazz 🎶 :
“My whole story changed” is real
2026-05-14 15:33:42
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bri :
My abusive alcoholic ex from when I was 16 crossed paths with me in my adult life when I was visiting his step dad who was sick. His parents literally told me to stay away from him and never get back with him. I house sat for them one day and went up to my ex’s old bedroom (he no longer lived there obviously) but every thing I ever made him/everything from our relationship was still there like a time capsule. He never even had another girlfriend after me. Also didn’t kick his alcoholism either. Definitely stayed where I left him!
2026-06-13 06:06:54
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nancie :
Glad you didn’t go back😭 other people would go back just for the pillow
2026-06-08 06:56:18
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MyaGhayes :
For reference yall. He face-timed me I NEVER went to his place. He gave me a tour of his new living situation virtually and I noticed sprinkles of everything I left. Including my pillow case and lamp and some more items. Those two particularly have a story😘
2026-05-19 02:12:07
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M💖 :
Mine lives in our old house with his new gf and all the furniture we picked out together, our art on the walls. There is nothing in my life that he has touched and I like it that way 🥰
2026-05-14 17:05:26
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goldie_wild :
Yet you’re the one posting about him on social media
2026-06-17 06:17:41
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lil_oak99 :
Oooh the idea of someone else being right where I left them brings me much joy. But ALAS I AM STILL AT THE RESTAURANT
2026-05-20 23:53:03
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Moonbeam Fox :
Like I don’t throw away gifts people gave me, even if we’re out of touch. It’s a reminder that someone thought of me and went out of their way to get something for me that they thought I would like. It’s a special experience. It isn’t trivial and not something that should be taken for granted
2026-06-01 20:47:35
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Jesse Pinkman :
do people think Im weird because I still sleep with the plushies I won on my first date with someone? like I keep them because I love them and Im proud of the fact I won them.
2026-05-15 01:22:03
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lily 🪷 :
never left me- megan moroney from twisters
2026-05-31 04:45:41
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Morgan Lorraine :
i’m working on changing my whole story. i’m so afraid this will be me because when my ex and i broke up after being together for 6 years, they immediately fell in love with someone else and i felt like they left me in the dust. but i keep telling myself it’s not how fast you build the house, it’s how sturdy the foundation is you know
2026-05-16 06:16:30
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Raymond Eric :
Get rid of everything. Let it all go, with love. Things hold energy and attachment loves energy.. let it all go and move on. It’ll be the best thing you do.
2026-06-01 04:12:27
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Leon :
I mean is that wrong? I still wear the necklace she gave me because it means so much to me
2026-05-20 09:24:58
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Catlady :
So did you guys get get back together or did you move on ? I’m
2026-05-14 21:36:34
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ɴᴏꜰᴀɪʀᴡᴇᴀᴛʜᴇʀꜰʀɪᴇɴᴅꜱ :
You say that but what’s really changed
2026-05-15 00:37:17
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muglix :
literally like he calls me to update me on his life like i asked him too and nothing has changed
2026-05-14 19:43:26
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Camilla Brancaccio :
girl i sleep in my ex boyfriend's t-shirts cause they are comfortable, but my whole story also changed 😭
2026-06-10 09:07:20
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:) :
my stuff is all still in his house and tbh I hope he donates it one day
2026-06-05 08:36:31
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MyaGhayes :
The video isnt about him its for the girls/guys who are in a situation where their heart is broken and they are losing things, for me it was my apartment, my path and any direction I had. My life completely changed for the better once i let go, and let god!! Sometimes we have to go through hard shit just a reminder it gets better❤️❤️. Obviously a few of us are focused on the tangible aspect of this video. Not the metaphorical ones. I wont sit here and explain the situation that happened and why these items meant a little more. But i hope if you feel stuck and like if you leave you will lose everything. Just know it gets better
2026-06-08 13:59:14
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