@audaciousday: Healing hack for people pleasing or childhood trauma — read parenting books like It’s Ok Not to Share by Heather Shumaker #TikTokLearningCampaign #BookTok #peoplepleaser #stoppeoplepleasing #HealingJourney

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migypie
Christina :
I accidentally figured out the hack of reading parenting books to help reparent myself because as a teacher, I was reading books about handling kids from that perspective, and I realized it was helping me. I appreciate your suggestion as unfortunately, it seems like parenting books can really be hit or miss.
2026-07-06 20:24:24
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hi.im.maeve
🧚Maeve🧚 (they/them) :
I read a Montessori book when my kid was a baby. I never taught him to share, and he is seriously the most thoughtful kid now 🥹
2026-07-07 02:41:10
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dreamer2_8
wings4dreams :
Wow this is great knowledge and it makes so much sense. Thank you
2026-07-08 00:07:27
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corimd
corimd :
My kid wanted a swing that another kid was on and the parent tried to get their kid out before they were ready. I said “he can wait. He can learn that he doesn’t get everything he wants the moment he wants it, even if someone else has it” they scolded me and said that it was a “tough lesson.” 😬😬😬
2026-07-08 00:06:53
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dopepotts
Preshus Potts :
My child is ten, and about two years ago, I stopped her from sharing for the very reason I felt I was teaching her to give in to others.
2026-07-06 16:21:03
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throwmeawayinthemorning
Good Boy :
But there's 100% gray area here. If there's one gaming console in the house and one sibling is on it 24/7, that's not fair. This strategy just turns things into a race on who gets there first. It makes more sense to teach kids to share when the situation calls for it without a blatant "hand it over immediately" solution.
2026-07-06 19:17:22
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i_am_ash_winchester
Ash Winchester :
I have never even considered to do this…..
2026-07-07 20:25:12
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ricecakeey
Nyasha :
You made my day!
2026-07-07 03:51:15
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lamppostspider
lamppost-spider :
you got a very calm voice. perfect for narrating all audiobooks
2026-05-12 06:09:46
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miss.spectacularr
Superior.stoic :
It’s absolutely ok to not share.
2026-05-12 05:21:50
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demidanique
demidanique :
Ooooo powerful!
2026-07-08 05:49:57
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sameusername3000
Sam :
What a great insight!
2026-07-07 15:08:03
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iamhussleuniquee
IamHussleUniquee$$ :
Thank you for the wisdom
2026-07-06 16:14:25
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orlanoodle
Orla Conway :
This reminds me of a really simple phrase they would use in my preschool - “Ask them if you can play with that toy *when they’re done with it*“ It can be simple and non-dramatic!
2026-05-16 16:43:27
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blessedcrystalministry
Crystal :
💯exactly
2026-07-07 08:28:45
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darthonyx
Darth Onyx :
recovering from this made me realize I'm kind but I'm not nice. I think everyone is deserving of the best quality of living however. I also know most people don't think like I do and it's okay to protect myself from that.
2026-07-07 21:30:09
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miss.spectacularr
Superior.stoic :
I’m purchasing this immediately.
2026-05-12 05:21:33
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dropstill
DropStill :
Ooo good idea!!
2026-07-07 14:10:34
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amaris_simone
✨amaris✨ | mostly yappin :
Never considered that omg
2026-06-11 02:16:46
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mjbeepboop
MJ :
I love all of this so much 🩷 thank you!
2026-05-12 22:15:38
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beholdherbloom
V • Tarot & Creative Healing :
That is a great share! Thank you. It really does start young and stay with us. Im the oldest of four and would always get blamed for anything my siblings complained about (i still remember various instances as well).
2026-07-07 00:50:32
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deeohsahh
deeohsah :
Followed 🥰 this hit
2026-07-06 19:56:15
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spiritualmama_
Spiritual Mom :
Deep
2026-07-08 07:27:26
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novaxd34
Nova Xd :
Wow
2026-07-07 19:11:26
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yhollomankent
Asthedearpanteth01 :
💜💜💜
2026-07-08 03:41:36
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