I have avoidant tendencies, but I’m trying to heal and become better for our relationship. Bila dia tiada aku sedih, bila dia ada aku rimas 🥲
2026-05-12 23:01:50
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عقيله :
dulu dia avoidant, sekarang aku pulak avoidant 😭
2026-05-14 12:46:54
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𝓃 :
silentrepost
2026-06-09 12:02:31
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kuki kun :
as someone who has avoidant personality, i apologize for hurting someone's feelings. having an avoidant problem doesn't mean i don't want to be in love with anyone, but im just afraid of being used like i was in the past. It's hard for someone to forget their past, especially if their past is too painful. i was scared. so i made a decision to push you away so you could go. but why did i feel hurt when you left?
i ruin things before they can ruin me. i overthink, i pull away, i create distance. and then i tell myself, "see"? they would've left anyway. but deep down, i know im the one who pushed them out.
as an avoidant, i spend my nights missing people i pushed away. i tell myself im better off alone.. but the truth is, im just scared of losing them once let them in.
2026-05-21 01:28:52
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يا حياتي :
ex sy avoidant ,sy lebihkan logika dari hati baru tenang haha...
2026-05-12 17:58:04
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najihah :
in the end, saya biar je dia heal. kalau nak datang, datang lah. kalau tanak pun saya terima je. sebab kita pun penat
2026-05-16 17:18:39
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𝗕𝘂𝗻𝗴𝗮 ⋆。˚ ❀ :
avoidant dgn anxious attachment. big no!
2026-06-01 13:42:09
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𝒮 𝐻 𝒜 𝐻 :
Betul. Saya sebagai avoidant boleh diubah sebab saya sendiri yang nak ubah. Orang lain takboleh tolong. Im not 100% healed and still in progress. One thing for sure im 60% there i think 😬😬
2026-05-13 15:36:49
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Mira 미래 :
avoidant + self aware is another level of pain😌
2026-05-20 08:14:11
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Sunshine🌹😎 :
damn true! Being an avoidant myslf is due to being too independent since young. Being too reliable on others is something that is just not me. Not for me.. and yes, the more pressure being given, the more damage it will cause. Just slow and easy is the solution.
2026-05-21 10:08:15
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isstoberiii🍓 :
tahla , lama ii saya pulak yg jd avoidant . trauma dibuatnya
2026-06-04 10:55:53
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𝐑𝐘𝐍𝐀 𝐁𝐔𝐑𝐍❥❥❥ :
alaaaaa ...hmmmm...aku sndri pun stress dgn diri aku...so aku xterima sape2...sng...ahhahahahhaha...kwn je cukup laaa
2026-05-12 14:02:00
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Shasha :
I realise i am avoidant, trying so hard to heal. Thats why i decide tanak start relationship tapi pasangan terluka dgn perangai saya 💔
2026-05-27 18:46:46
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ʚ aisyah ɞ :
im not even an avoidant before, but trauma changed me 😭 sampai effect orang sekeliling, then sendiri sedih sbb rasa mcm orang menjauh, hakikatnya kita sendiri yg keep on pushing people away😞
2026-05-21 22:01:13
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nanafijaww :
TAK BOLEH UBAH AVOIDANT TAPI KITA BOLEH JAUHKAN DIRI DARI AVOIDANT
2026-05-13 14:28:05
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mieeee :
dia camni je to make it short. orang kalau suka sama suka dia akan tolerate semua perkara dengan kau. dia faham je semua sign semua benda ni. so bila dia memang tak suka kau, dia akan jadi se-redflag yang mungkin untuk kau sendiri sedar and blah. don't waste your effort and energy to someone who doesn't want you. please know your value.
2026-05-24 18:45:26
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️ :
aku nk kata aku ni avoidant tu nthla tp ciri ii tu ada..but aku xpernah ada relay before this so nk ckp trauma sblm tu xdela tp aku ada rasa ciri ii avoidant tu takut berlebihan
2026-05-22 15:13:34
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🌪️ :
ya betul..tolong jangan tekan².. kami yang avoidant tak suka..lagi kau kejar lagi kami lari 😅
2026-05-14 11:31:00
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arni :
silent repost
2026-05-22 09:42:09
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Harithnizam_ :
aku pon penat bang , setahun lebih tahan anggap jela takde jodoh
2026-05-21 10:08:09
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rendangitik :
Sebagai orang avoidant, macam mana nak jadi secure/berubah?
2026-05-13 02:02:27
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Cahaya Shahida :
dulu Sy igt dia avoidant rupanya Sy pun sama
2026-05-12 13:38:41
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ز :
as an avoidance aku cuma bgtau bg aku ruang dlu utk aku pikir then bila aku dah calm down aku akan explain why jgn too pushy nak jawapan
2026-05-21 04:27:11
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Mr Travel02 :
Sya dh tinggalkan dia sbb mlas nk tunggu
2026-05-16 08:02:16
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