As someone who recently started doing this to people, it means a couple of things. First, I’ve set strict boundaries with you because I’ve felt disrespected and undervalued multiple times. Second, I’ve realized that you’re not the same friend I am to you. Look inward; the answer lies there. People don’t change overnight.
2026-05-13 21:36:18
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Cinthia :
I realized it’s always me reaching out once I stopped I haven’t heard from them again.
2026-05-13 18:55:17
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ZOEYYYYYYY💫 :
I messed up and my best friend stopped talking to me and I can’t fix it. can’t repost but I was here.
2026-06-04 19:52:16
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Kaitlyn Tucker Bebyn :
one of the hardest adult lessons I learned was that I dont always mean the same to my friends as they do to me.
2026-05-13 15:28:14
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acha :
oh the timing…
2026-05-12 15:42:48
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tsquinn :
My bsf met another friend of mine and they became bsf and left me out… So i cut them out
2026-05-12 15:58:59
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Leila :
Can’t repost, but I was here
2026-05-15 04:17:37
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stella_vlckova :
I just wish i had a friend like myself
2026-05-18 19:32:57
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taylor 💗 :
silent repost
2026-05-16 06:26:41
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Nana⁷ :
And her other friend tell me something about her that I don't know and tell me "oh she didn't tell you?"
2026-05-12 15:45:48
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marianne :
I’ll be honest here, most of the time it isn’t about you. They’re not forced to stay friends with you as you are not forced to do the same. Sometimes you outgrow friendships, especially in your twenties. Sometimes your friend just doesn’t align with who you are becoming anymore and that is okay. It hurts, it sucks, but that’s life. You’ll find other friends and make more memories with them and they will do the same. You can maintain a friendship even if you have different goals, routes, etc… but there’s nothing wrong with cutting ties because you’ve outgrown the relationship.
2026-06-03 03:55:15
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not.chelsey2.0 :
miss them but life goes on unfortunately
2026-05-27 21:15:06
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🐜 :
The timing
2026-06-04 18:22:04
0
zachery ⧗ :
stopped texting first and i haven’t gotten a single text in weeks now
2026-06-04 02:53:19
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YzzyDG 🇨🇦 :
Been the one always reaching out, the one to listen, the one who gave.. I realized that some people don’t have to emotionally availability to reciprocate. And that’s when I stopped reaching out. We took different paths and that’s ok.
2026-06-03 01:29:56
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BananaSmoothie2022 :
Ive never had a best friend. That sucks
2026-06-03 09:09:22
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🫧 :
this hurts more if you know that there weren't even any issues in your friendship, your closeness just suddenly slipped away unnoticed
2026-05-16 11:57:32
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Rafa🌙 :
I refuse to keep reaching out first. I’m so sick of it
2026-05-15 17:56:11
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💃🏻 :
they will be calling u bestie but prioritise other people 🙂
2026-05-14 22:13:09
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Lizzie (IceMav's Version) :
she got a boyfriend and suddenly I didn't matter anymore... we've known each other for almost 17 years
2026-05-12 23:11:00
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ela ✍🏻 :
I stopped reaching out cuz i realised that it's always me who gives the effort, guess what, we never talked ever since 🤷🏻♀️
2026-05-25 05:29:07
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