@legirltea: finding out through FollowSpy hurt… but somehow losing him still hurt more 💔 #betrayal #relateable #cheater #cheating #justgirlythings

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I Wear Glasses :
Going through this TODAY. Found out this morning and I have so little self-worth that I still want him.
2026-05-14 15:35:27
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kyleejordan66
KJR :
It helps when you finally realize that the person you were in love with never really existed.
2026-05-14 17:36:05
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mongokirbycoupa
MongoKirbyCoupa🇨🇦 :
It’s not that you want HIM. You just don’t want to be alone. Or start all over again. It’s a normal feeling. Don’t be ashamed. But recognize it for what it is: it’s not love.
2026-05-14 22:45:50
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poccopoyo
Acorn :
Your brain naturally doesn’t understand that the person you believed to be safe after so many months or years actually isn’t, it takes a lot longer to process than the event itself and takes a crazy amount of willpower MOST people don’t possess to just walk away, you’ll want to reason, make sense of it, and of course, go to the person who normally comforts you for that comfort. It’s messed up, it hurts, but it doesn’t make you stupid. Recognize the person isn’t safe and make an exit plan. Be kinder to yourself.
2026-05-16 02:48:08
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ness_aaahh
Nessa :
Relationship is never the same after. Save your mind and heart and leave
2026-05-14 02:57:44
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evrolu
Ev :
I stayed even after 2 baby’s from 2 different women. I loved him so much that I really didn’t love myself at all.
2026-05-15 15:05:03
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mszipc
Miss Zippy :
I completely understand.
2026-05-13 04:19:37
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tiffreeley
Tiffany Reeley :
You’re not alone in this. I promise you that
2026-05-14 10:35:02
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catwomanani
Ani :
Love will never protect or secure a relationship. It's so much more than just that. Go and leave the cheater, find yourself and after this , start to fall in love with you.
2026-05-14 02:24:02
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terri_gentile
Terri Gentile⚡️✨ :
Bargaining stage of grief 😭
2026-05-14 23:10:28
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azazelelcaido
Elias Silva :
honestly if it's not a deal breaker for you, that's fine, do what you think is best for you. just bc it's a deal breaker for most ppl, doesn't mean it has to be for you.
2026-05-15 10:58:12
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rosiequintero
Rosie Quintero✨🩶 :
Yup! I did it for a whole year. One day I woke up I ended up being so disgusted with my self for allowing someone to make me feel so belittled.
2026-05-15 03:27:04
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sasssymommma
Sassymomma :
I did it for 20+ years. It happens, you are not stupid you are a good person that has a lot of love to give!! Now you just wait until the one who is worthy of all of that love appears Stay strong and stay true to to who you are.
2026-05-15 16:02:51
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julianneblair
julianneblair :
It’s not worth it. Been there done that
2026-05-14 16:15:35
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alexandcoffee
Alexinprogress :
I felt so stupid and look back and couldn’t believe I put up with his shit for so long
2026-05-17 00:12:23
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cassandra_leighhh
Cassandra Leigh :
Silent repost
2026-05-14 16:17:28
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emlayschips
Em :
I say it evens out if you cheat back
2026-05-16 17:49:42
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nikimoff
N :
Were you in love with him, or the person he showed you, even the actual relationship? It’s normal to grieve something that meant so much to you especially when it seemed so perfect and exactly what you wanted.
2026-05-14 11:45:51
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tlhawes74
Tammy :
That’s not stupid at all
2026-05-14 12:29:39
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jorytaj
Jorytaj :
I still love everyone I have ever dated ( only 3 people). They are still the same person and have the qualities I fell in love with.
2026-05-14 07:44:16
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jamieimp
Jamie I :
Been there before and eventually I couldn’t do it anymore…..10 years later and I’m so grateful I left that unhealthy mess of a relationship
2026-05-13 20:31:06
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shelle4428
Shelle44 :
That wasn't because you were in love that was because you loved him more then you loved yourself.
2026-05-16 21:17:16
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misspsyduck8902
psyduck :
and then moving on from it but just randomly remembering the hurt and yeah that ruined my day
2026-05-16 01:30:41
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stephanieponce610
Stephanie Ponce :
Girl we all been there at one point
2026-05-19 08:26:23
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biancaev2
biancaev :
Idk I concentrate on how stupid I’d look from an outside POV. Helps me get my shit together and move on
2026-05-16 05:36:05
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