Anthony | How to People
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Tuesday 12 May 2026 17:59:28 GMT
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SAETIA :
Both videos are so helpful to me thank you so much. I also have an angry looking face (I furrow my brow when I am concentrating or thinking) so it’s a lot to work on but I really appreciate the insight
2026-05-12 18:19:51
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kyleisanAI :
I often find myself in the shoes of expecting a certain reaction from people. I made a joke, it should be funny. It was an accomplishment, I should get a certain reaction. I quickly check out if I don't see the reactions expected, nuking a conversation. An overall lack of effort from the other side kills it for me too.
2026-05-14 14:37:05
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djoj :
I've recently learned that when you're in fight, flight or freeze your social facial muscles don't really activate as much. And when you're in rest and digest, all those social facial muscles and anything else that drives connection naturally activates much more in an effective way. Also your voice becomes warmer and more enjoyable to listen to for example. (Key element to add: You don't need to be in full rest and digest to activate this. Just the start. And the social interactions are meant to further help the nervous system relax.)
2026-05-12 18:38:56
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Milo Ramsey :
Would u be willing to do some vids where ur actually engaging in conversation?
2026-05-12 21:30:44
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djdudhe8 :
I'm struggling to teach my 10-year-old this now. if people are excited they want to see you excited too. It doesn't matter if you're excited on the inside!
2026-05-13 22:31:10
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SimpleGuy007 :
How about I don't care and, ultimately, it's wrong to be dishonest with anyone.
2026-05-26 04:50:21
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madm0ch1 :
I keep learning things… about myself….and past….
2026-05-12 18:21:11
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Loneminer :
Just a question. I completely hate being performative and geniunely have low to none reaction to pretty much anything. Be it positive or negative. Should i just grit my teeth and try to pretend to be this deeply reactionary person? (for context i am autistic. i don't want it to be an excuse just an estabilished Factor).
2026-05-12 18:26:39
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Owen Korzec :
Have to watch full vid later but literally ppl are so sensitive to a “prickly tone” lol. Not sure if this about tone of voice but it has a big impact on impression
2026-05-13 16:16:30
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