@jennasheinelle: Esther Perel, psychotherapist and author joined #JennaandSheinelle to talk about the re-release of her bestselling book, “Mating in Captivity,” for its 20th anniversary. Perel breaks down what has changed and stayed the same in relationships and dating in the 20 years since she first published the book and shares why women feel most drawn to their partners when they’re not defined by the burden of caretaking.

Christie Made It 🇨🇦 :

Oh. I was gonna say the day before I ovulate.

Piablu :

when I play the piano she tells me I should be taking care of the kids 🤣

Miguel Hernandez :

Esther Perel, you are here to bring collective healing of the masses.

Ms Johnson :

Exactly!

user9897407923626 :

Mmm. My answer is when I’m out of town. :)

thehealingfeminine23 :

That is so true!!!

T :

When I see this in a partner I’m just so proud.

uniquecustomcandles :

Damn. So clear wow

Amanda :

Oh wow this is so true

mllb2525 :

Oh. I was gonna say when they’re being quiet and leaving me alone.

kerissa keen :

Deb Guy | Human Psychology :

But I feel like this when he even walks past me and looks at me

MrsJWatt :

Yesssss ❤️❤️❤️

Merri :

Yes!

Charliedontswiperight :

Totally agree 💯 but to be honest, sometimes we put ourselves into the role of caretaker… like it’s how we were trained to show Love.

Cinnamon.me :

Disagree

Jaime :

yes 🙌

Susie Dee :

Yes!

Gina The Too Much Woman™ :

no not for me. it's when I see their kindness, their humanity, their generosity. that is most attractive

Erin Barlow :

Good god she’s always spot on!

shelby forest :

Esther perel ❤️❤️

notnotkasey :

Wow. That is so true.

dabbastar :

Yes! This exactly.🥰

María Nieto ✨ Libros El Erizo :

SolaceSoulless :

YESSSSSSSS