@bayoubrandi2.0: Thoughts? #ivf #infertility

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potato_onthegulf
Potato Onthegulf :
I’ll be completely honest here… I’ve offered mine up… in a very joking manner but not based on an infertility conversation. I always said things like that when people said… omg! She’s so cute! I’d be like… you can have her 😂😂 I do think that is very insensitive of a response in your situation.
2026-05-12 20:49:29
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kc_52099
🧿🩵 :
That would never cross my mind to say. Wtaf…
2026-05-12 18:26:33
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jb00004238
JHill :
🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡💯💯💯💯 yes insensitive
2026-05-13 02:40:16
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craftwithglo
CraftingwithGlo :
100% because that’s not the point! 😑
2026-05-13 00:25:05
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chelseaaa7516
chelseaaa7516 :
It’s insensitive…
2026-05-13 02:01:17
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brittanycj55
brittany :
I dont think that's something I would even think to say. I will say that I have a hard time expressing my sympathy when it comes to infertility. "I'm sorry" doesn't seem like enough and anything about myself and my child feels like rubbing it in. I can see where someone is unsure of what to say so they say something dumb unintentionally
2026-05-12 18:41:29
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jenniferwilt480
Jenn :
I think context matters but I can’t imagine saying that. And I had no issues with fertility and have so much empathy for those struggling
2026-05-13 23:56:45
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angelaedwardstill
Angela Edwards Tillo :
Yes it’s insensitive
2026-05-12 23:50:33
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mammazcreations
🖤Trin🖤 :
I have six daughters and I have definitely said that before not thinking. Now I will definitely not say it again knowing it could be taken this way. Completely understandable.
2026-05-13 01:03:37
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jeanettecain
Jeanette C :
As someone who had no trauma in conceiving I see how this can feel hurtful and inconsiderate. I try to see both sides of things, I wonder if this is the response because they don’t know how to respond. I know personally, while I have never said that, I feel a little guilty when I hear how difficult conceiving and carrying is for others. I think it helps to hear your feelings and perspective.
2026-06-21 11:36:26
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shauniceduplechain_2026
Shaunice Duplechain :
I had no trouble conceiving, and I think anyone who said that to you is being inconsiderate There are all sorts of things running through my brain right now, so I’m going to keep my opinions to myself, but I completely agree with you.
2026-06-20 03:38:26
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donnabrown1.2
Donna Brown :
I would be upset about it
2026-05-17 06:21:38
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mamafte19
Mamafte🆘🇺🇸 :
when people say, "just adopt" it makes me see red. It is SO flippant and disrespectful. there's literally nothing easy about adoption.
2026-06-21 05:48:03
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cajunbrat48
Cajunbrat❌ :
It’s extremely insensitive. I struggled with my pregnancies, and lost a child.
2026-05-30 23:41:16
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officiallysarahllc
💜Officially Sarah💜 :
It is very insensitive!!! It's an awful thing to say!!!
2026-05-12 21:34:27
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susanburke28
SusanVaBu :
Why would someone say that???
2026-05-12 23:09:27
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icedcoffeemom3
Icedcoffeemom3 ☕️ 💚 :
That statement would never cross my mind to ever say.
2026-05-13 03:09:34
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kenziesmama21
kenziesmama21 :
I have def said it in random joking situations but I would never say that to someone struggling with infertility or someone sharing a story of loss
2026-06-06 20:26:13
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archangela045
❤️💙 :
It is totally insensitive.
2026-05-12 23:39:33
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jennareed15
Jenna Reed :
Took us 2 years and a fertility clinic to conceive our first via IUI, we’ve since gotten pregnant 3 times without trying and I would never say that to someone experiencing infertility. Now have a jokingly offered people my kids, sure, but not because they said they couldn’t have their own.
2026-05-13 00:49:24
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pamelapanepinto
Pamela Panepinto :
Extremely insensitive! I am extremely grateful. And would never make that comment to someone who is in the trenches of infertility.
2026-06-01 23:01:33
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m.martin091
Melissa🍄🍄‍🟫 :
As an ivf mom that’s incredibly insensitive. I’m sorry you have been hearing that
2026-05-13 00:20:13
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amanda_suesue
Amanda :
Yes very insensitive and like what are we supposed to say when they say that anyway? also to add any phrase referring to 'oh enjoy the peace and quiet while you can' um sometimes being alone with your thoughts is hard too so we don't want more silence 😭
2026-05-13 16:20:21
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alice_a82
🎀❤️just a girl🎀❤️ :
I didn’t have a struggle getting pregnant. And that comment deserves a throat 🤛
2026-05-15 12:08:43
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chassidyjustice
Chassidy :
No it’s very insensitive.
2026-05-12 23:53:29
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