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Ames :
Pushing away in hopes of being proven wrong
2026-06-19 07:06:41
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supremowen on ig :
self sabotage to get reassurance 😭
2026-05-18 22:48:13
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Day :
Just discovered that this is how i do things to😅
2026-06-22 15:17:36
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Mariela :
Don’t describe me without my permission, it’s mean
2026-06-11 20:16:21
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𝝑𝝔 :
how do i pray this out of my body??? like seriously i need to stop doing this & hurting my own feelings when i don’t get the response i wanted .
2026-06-19 16:01:07
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Aidan Lagaly :
This is actually most likely an anxious-avoidant also called "disorganized attachment style". It could still be an anxious attachment style but pushing people away for that reason is almost textbook disorganized attachment style
2026-06-20 17:44:33
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David Duarte :
"I wanted to be wanted"
2026-05-31 21:06:08
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issaadalawatatlo :
I have anxious attachment and also has self-awareness. Yk how hard that is? I feel manipulative. I just wanted reassurance but i can’t say it properly. I hate it. Ik i need to communicate but i just pitch an idea to him to deny and want me. I always can’t directly say it. Im getting insecure and getting mad at myself at the same time.
2026-06-18 13:44:13
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Marce | Psych & Analysis :
I think deeper than the reassurance you are seeking. You are trying to show that you are good by pitching the idea that you don't need much, that you are not going to be a burden by wanting attention and love.
2026-06-03 23:02:09
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Wouldn't u like to know :
As a kid I'd randomly stop when out on a walk with my parents to see how long they'd walk before they realised I had stopped. I think I've always been a bit broken
2026-05-28 23:04:31
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T 💫 :
This is very me. That’s why most of my friendships don’t last because they don’t come after me, I don’t make the first move, and I immediately back down whenever they find a new friend.
2026-05-31 16:38:21
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Mirai :
It’s a way of asking “do you wanna be around me” without asking it.
2026-06-20 04:32:20
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han✮⁺˖⁷ :
girl why are you in my mind 😭
2026-05-24 17:43:34
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Loys❤️ :
then loose my mind when they actually don't come back
2026-05-31 09:22:59
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Alex_M.69😛 :
my anxious attachment is someone actually liking me and i push them away because i was never use to something i never thought would happen to me
2026-06-03 04:58:04
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🍰 :
I just miss my friends so much. I can't live a day without thinking of them and I breakdown so badly when we don't talk, even for just a day
2026-05-13 03:46:42
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🦋 Ty 🦋 :
I feel this wholeheartedly
2026-05-28 20:37:37
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zaiwinx 🇵🇸 :
Talking from my experience, I firmly believe it simply stems from subconsciously constantly considering yourself unworthy of comfortable assurance from people that matters to you because you yourself cannot see your worth, so instead you test the waters with the worst way with hope of being wanted but never with a zero percentage of expecting for the worst to happen. It’s like a safe approach, a defense mechanism that at some point if they truly let u go, at least you’re not so wrong about what you feel about yourself (which is so wrong and self destructive). :/
2026-06-11 02:45:05
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spiderman🕷️ :
oh i’m actually not hungry.
2026-06-21 08:03:44
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✨crispy✨ :
i have the same thing but i think it also comes from a place of insecurity. like of course they don’t want me. let me give them an easy out so they don’t have to reject me. rejection is so hard for them to dole out. let me help them reject and deny me. and like you mentioned, the worst part of it is that i still held out hope tht im wrong.
2026-05-13 03:53:06
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junejune9800 :
Computa how do i make it stop shortcut
2026-06-22 05:29:02
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