@teresondupuy: What if you would’ve been more secure in that relationship… would it have lasted? Probably not. Especially if your partner was deeply avoidant and unwilling to look at themselves. Healing yourself does not heal another person for them. You cannot love someone into accountability. You cannot self-abandon hard enough to make someone choose connection. You cannot become “perfect enough” to stop someone from running from intimacy. Relationships only transform when BOTH people are willing to become self-aware. Your security might’ve changed how long you tolerated the dysfunction… but it would not have magically changed someone who did not want to heal. Stop carrying the weight of believing you could’ve saved the relationship if only you were different. They have to want themselves too. And they have to do the work for themselves. #avoidant #twinflames #heartbreak #attachmentstyle #brokenheart

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