@raisingtwins05: I think i could have perhaps worded it better. I don't think motherhood is a competition and believe everyone has differences. It was purely trying to say these are the reasons it can be different or tough but your differences are completely relevant also. I've been asked to explain why and I thought a post would've been the best way but taken out of context I can see how it could look. I'm a massive supporter of mums and maternal Mental health so I am truly sorry if you've felt badly with what I've said. it was never my intention 💖 #mumlife #twins #irishtwins #2under2 #apology
no matter what you say, what ever way you say it.. some one will love it, or others will hate it… your doing a great job with the twins, your honest and up beat.. as a mum of 5, 3 with needs. it’s hard and it’s all i can do some days to make it till bed time.. but as you say every day’s different from the one before.. life’s a roll coaster and it makes no sense why ppl take it all so personally.. all you do is chat away and say how you feel at the moment etc
2026-05-16 15:31:58
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Rachel Somerville 💋💕 :
You piss ppl off, I couldn’t believe that 😘 You are so right it’s all about personal experience, no two people cope with things in the same way, some ppl are highly strung, easily triggered and overwhelmed, while others may take the same experience in their stride not just referring to motherhood when I say that, I just mean life in general. My hat comes off to you being a twin mum would be so hard! I don’t have a village on the day to day, no grandparents 10 min drive away and no siblings to call on if needed. Some ppl couldn’t survive without their network and for us we’ve just had to get on with it. So that’s what I mean by experiences everyone is different xx
2026-05-13 10:11:11
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Alex McCullough :
Personal experience but here I’ve a 3 year old and 1 year old it’s hard it’s demanding but honestly if I had 2 1 year olds my head would be away both in the exact same stage equally demanding I would find it a lot harder with twins compared to the age gap I dunno that’s just my personal opinion and someone is bound to come at me for it lol xx
2026-05-13 10:26:00
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🔮Gem✨️ :
I agree with you completely, everyones experiences are different and no one should be comparing. You are doing amazing mama, remember you'll not be everyone's cup of tea so don't stress yourself trying to appease everyone especially when there is people on this app that loves to make things difficult regardless of wording
2026-05-13 09:32:52
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Donna@d3m_trades :
I have Irish twins as a single mother. What I always said as soon as I got one out of a bad stage the next one was into it. Though honestly unless we have experienced both we can't really answer truthfully most will think their situation is worse.
2026-05-14 06:43:11
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Grief to Growth ❤️🩹 :
Oh I agree with you! Your look on it pregnancy, birth, 1 maternity 2 sets of everything, like at home having 2 kids same age I get it! I found 2 under two hard but I was also able to teach my toddler to help climb into high chair with assistance instead of me lifting him. With you trying to look after to actual babies! You worded it fine! No one can have an opinion unless they have twins xx
2026-05-13 09:13:04
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Tamecka🌸 :
Everyone’s experiences with motherhood is completely different , you are entitled to your opinion 🥰it says a lot about the people taking it to heart not about you for speaking your experience ❤️
2026-05-13 09:54:53
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Liv Rue 🤍 Plus Two 🫶 :
People just love an argument 🙈 you’re just right that it’s different and you’re allowed to say that ❤️
2026-05-15 07:09:22
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Brooke🩵🩷 :
agree its different kids under 3 learn and rapidly grow at different stages and parenting experience is different for all sorts of reasons. you don't need to explain yourself x
2026-05-26 12:49:07
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Life lately 💕 :
I had two under two and I am an Irish twin, never ever could I rate them the same as twins 😂 I needed more than two hands with one child then another never mind 2 at the exact same time 😂😂😂 do not apologise, superwoman ❤️
2026-05-13 17:35:01
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powderpoutwaxspecialist :
there's no comparison.. twins are next level... I did 3 under 2 🤣🤣🤣 I deffo knoe
2026-05-13 19:38:00
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yums the word :
there will always be that one who takes it the wrong way and comment negatively which can be disheartening.
I can't imagine raising twins but I know it would be hard work and exhausting. I had 4 years between my two and it was a godsend as one was at nursery while I had time with the other plus he was old enough to fetch nappies. wipes etc for me. saying that they were both special needs which was hard work but in a different way. dont let them annoy you and keep her lit 😘
2026-05-13 19:38:54
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Stacey Elliott :
I think parenting in general is hard no matter the circumstances or how many children you have . I've a 15 year old and 1 year old it's bloody difficult especially on my own 😅
2026-05-13 15:49:20
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martine :
you don't have to apologize or explain yourself danii I find when you text the wording and meaning can be totally took out of context and most jump the gun and get offended xx
2026-05-13 11:12:24
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Treasa - Pregnant SEND Mammy :
i wouldn't worry at all. you are just sharing your own experience. i think everyones experience is so different..i have a 4yo with developmental delays and a 20month old. its so weird because developmentally they are at similar stages but one is big and strong 😂😂😂
2026-05-30 17:21:33
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Neil Gilliland :
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2026-05-13 09:18:23
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