Cheyenne Tiffani
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ace :
"intent does not negate impact"
2026-05-15 16:04:57
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qw.lolx :
the cognitive dissonance between knowing they don't mean it yet we still feel hurt makes so much sense!! That honestly sounds like it explains how all feelings of "we care for each other but we are not compatible" arises 😭😭
2026-05-14 06:17:26
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tess <3 :
so well said
2026-07-03 04:53:03
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I'mOnlyMed :
but if your partner is constantly getting hurt by every small little thing. oh Lord it gets tiring real fast
2026-05-15 09:49:57
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Lauren | conflict & connection :
Prioritizing impact doesn’t mean intention is unimportant. Intention is crucial for long-term trust. Healthy conflict resolution just requires a strict process. Handle the impact BEFORE you are earned the right to explain your intent.
2026-05-20 00:51:14
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D :
i get ur message but what are some sentences i can say to show that i have deep emphathy yknow 😭
2026-05-14 12:10:17
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🎧 :
could you talk about the importance of apologies in relationships? should they apologise when they’ve hurt you even though that wasn’t their intention? or is acknowledgement enough
2026-05-18 03:58:27
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SunnyYaps :
Nicely explained, easier said than done
2026-05-14 05:43:26
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viktoriamakesmusic :
This is super easy, just listen to what your partner is saying and actually hear it, instead of just talking to say your piece
2026-05-15 19:24:33
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zigzack994 :
wah, lucky husband.
2026-05-13 16:48:04
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mixerrxg :
but what about when the argument is control issue? like husband is mad that I didn't respond over a very minor thing on text and I defend myself saying that it seems a small matter and can be wait to discuss f2f. But he wants something to be done his way
2026-05-15 04:49:20
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dulya ◡̈ :
impact > intent always
2026-05-15 11:33:00
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Canuckle :
Need a follow up video on what to say exactly. Deep empathy is not enough as an answer we need more 🙏😅
2026-05-15 18:05:42
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Han 🌼 :
I need this. Thank you 😭
2026-06-07 02:09:56
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thank you
2026-05-15 11:42:59
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Karl :
Real
2026-05-27 21:38:55
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Sojung :
"Sorry, i was wrong.. How can i fix it?"
2026-05-27 15:02:59
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blep :
@blep: This reached me at the perfect time! Ytd had a disagreement with my SO based on this. Basically I told him I was hurt, and he started explaining his perspective. And that just led to the situation being escalated. I kept saying I don’t really care about his perspective in a sense that it’s not important. All we want is just reassurance, acknowledgment and affection. The fact that him explaining his perspective or not as little to no effect on the outcome
2026-05-15 03:44:56
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Sky Rae 💙 :
What if you had the conversation so many times of not to do something but every time he does it he has an explanation and when you try to hold him accountable he gets mad and ends the call
2026-06-21 01:44:09
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ilovepeach :
damn girl 🥹
2026-05-16 15:30:52
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Ecahh :
great advise... im following you
2026-06-05 03:23:04
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z :
how can i practice this when flipping the scenario doesnt make me feel the same way? like somethings hurt them but they wouldnt hurt me
2026-05-26 23:38:17
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Madjonga :
Sometimes your partner just doesn’t want to move from the feeling of being hurt even after biggest validation, and 14 days later still doesn’t want to hear my intentions or the situation from my side or how to avoid such situations in future
2026-06-28 23:22:53
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mnk :
Off topic: You look like Sophia from Katseye!
2026-06-16 07:03:34
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