@burned_notbroken: when a burned out partner asks for space, how you respond creates an environment of either safety or pressure. don’t push them away further by responding with panic or urgency. #burnedoutpursuer #emotionalsafety #relationshipburnout #breakuptok #relationshiprepair
So just let people walk away when it gets too hard? Even if it’s when you need them the most?
2026-05-31 11:17:32
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WinterMechanic :
well the problem is i cant keep being with someone that doesn’t even want to be around me anymore
2026-07-09 06:31:52
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Scoot :
Did I blow it?? Me ex ended our 2+ year relationship a little over a month ago. The first 3 weeks I tried to give space but every few days I made attempts to get her to try again. And I did say something to the effect of “why are you throwing this away if you love me” …because she did tell me more than once that she loves me but she can’t try again. I also said I’d do anything to fix it. But I haven’t reached out in the past 9 days. I’m hoping no contact helps bring us back together while we work on ourselves individually. My question for you is did I ruin it with how I handled the first couple weeks?
2026-07-06 17:06:59
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Becca🥥 :
I’m so glad I found your account
2026-05-14 01:51:08
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joe__valente ♍️ :
What if they say they dont love me. Is it just words or a feeling?
2026-05-13 15:40:46
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qwetyuiop41 :
maybe it is the case, she said during the breakup theres a lot of reasons including keeping us secret from her family, but space is space and i respect it
2026-07-02 20:35:46
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DelaGT :
Why can’t you make these videos sooner lol
2026-05-15 02:10:12
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Hdnellis :
What if I said all those things in the moment but have since given space and haven’t said anything
2026-07-06 18:03:12
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Jeff Edwardson :
As always very insightful knowledge. Thank you
2026-05-13 20:09:04
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Lord Raiden :
my wife of 20 years recently split with me were still talking I'm taking things alot slower and accepted all that I did I don't wanna lose her friendship
2026-05-14 07:40:18
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faro.arizona :
Glad I found your account…
2026-05-31 22:23:29
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Chloé ISSALY :
I think i did all the mistakes you just say in this video... She left me, i let her with the space she needs, for both of us, to rebuild myself to. Even if i have still hope, i'm getting better and do things to create a new life, no just wainting for her. I think a breakup in this kind of situation feel like a true ending
2026-05-13 15:52:41
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J :
thank you for these videos! just sent you a dm im hoping you can look at it!
2026-05-13 17:13:56
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Sarah Alder :
@Sarah Alder: 7 weeks ago my partner of 22years left me and our kids and moved bk into his mum ( plane flight away ) i was constantly txting and ringing every day and he was always so horrible and would say nasty things along with leave me alone. Obviously i didnt want to leave him alone because i want to fix or rebuild our relationship/family 22years is a long time to just throw away and give up well in my opinion. Im on day 2 of not reaching out and its painful i dont know what to do as i want to give him space but i dont want him to take that as ive gave up and he moves on 😫 help
2026-05-14 07:22:00
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EEBrown :
I’ve stopped doing all this, but I did all of this in the fist 10 days. I literally said all of it. 😔
2026-05-29 11:08:01
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Lori Schneider421 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-14 12:23:33
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Becken 🍉 :
First thing he asked was “am I expected to be celibate while you kick me out?” (Yes. The answer is yes, I expect you to not go out and date other people while “we” are trying to save our marriage!) Within 72 hours he had reached out to his female friend (about whom he has been having - and sharing with me - sexual fantasies for the last 6 years) for emotional support. Not sure he can come back from this.
2026-07-11 14:58:31
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