@bethanyydobson: If you’re not losing fat, this IS the only reason why OF COURSE, things like PCOS, going through menopause, autoimmune can make fat loss harder. I’m not pretending they don’t. We’ve coached thousands of women with these conditions who spent years convinced it was the thing stopping them. They’ve gone on to lose 20kg+ in 8–12 months with us !! Harder? Yes. Impossible? NO 🫱🏻‍🫲🏼🫱🏻‍🫲🏼 Most of the time it’s not your condition. It’s your accuracy You THINK you’re being good. Monday to Friday you’re nailing it. Then Saturday comes - a meal out, a few wines, a takeaway because you cba cooking and you’ve wiped out your entire week’s deficit without even realising. And I know what you’re thinking. “Great so I just have to be miserable forever and never enjoy anything?” No. God no. That’s literally the opposite of what I’m saying !! You can go out. You can enjoy food. You can have a life. You just need to be a bit smarter about how you navigate it. That’s a skill and having a boundary which is something you can learn. Also - fat loss is a PHASE. It’s not your life You do the hard bit, you get the results, then we build you back up to maintenance and you crack on with your life without thinking about calories every waking second. you’ve probably spent years going round in circles blaming your body when honestly it might just be your approach Go to the link in my bio If you think you’d be a good fit for my team to coach 1-1 you through your 15–20kg transformation properly so you can actually lose it and maintain it for good.

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davietakesaim
DavieTakesAim :
Surely you meant to say a 2,500 calorie surplus?!
2026-05-13 17:52:54
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imogennewby
imogennewby :
I’m always hungry!
2026-05-13 20:07:22
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skvatnavle
Skvatnavle :
Question... If I know I'm going out on Saturday, can I just eat less calories the others days to kinda "save up" calories, so at the end of the week it adds up?
2026-05-14 07:48:38
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lisetteferreirapi
Lisette Ferreira Pin :
For me I’m going over my calories by around 500-700 kcal on friday and saturday. The rest of the days I’m in my deficit. This has worked over time for me (3 months so far) and slowly I’m going down:) some weeks the svale go up, but over a few weeks, the trend is down. And I can enjoy every food I like, but with moderation. I’m tracking with Lifesum with the help of chat gpt when the app is a bit off haha
2026-05-13 20:27:05
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danpullenhireandhaulage
Charlene Pullen :
Pcos over here and since calorie counting I’m 9lb down. I told myself every excuse under the sun! It’s working out what your body needs without thinking about the underlying issues.
2026-05-13 18:18:21
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emmaswift01
Emma Swift :
I run, get hungry & binge. I know that's my problem!
2026-05-13 18:18:34
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da.beej.666
Da Beej 666 :
I’ve been stuck on the same weight eating 1400cals I’m 72 kg 1m70 and not been cheating at all. It’s killing me
2026-05-15 15:38:18
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adaisntreal
ada :
tbh I found that having a couple of meals out a week is ideal for my weight-loss, helps me to not feel insane and satisfy my cravings!
2026-05-14 07:16:13
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rsshu224
rsshu224 :
So wait I’m confused? We can only have 500 calories a day?
2026-05-13 18:29:22
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lisalane91
lisa74 :
perimenopause and work shifts 12 hour days and nights my eating times are all over the place. does it matter what times you eat.
2026-05-13 17:59:31
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zabel2642
Zabel :
I am 5 foot tall. I'm in perimenopause, have Hashimotos and due to a chronic illness, my exercise levels are so light that I still class myself as sedentary. For me to be in a 500 calorie deficit. I'd have to be eating around 1300 calories. The issue is that I don't have enough room to move as I lose weight of I do that. So I have to make do with a 200 calorie a day deficit and losing 200 grams a week. My story is not uncommon at all. Do you understand how hard it is for women to maintain motivation for that small of a result? A little empathy and compassion rather than thinking you know it all is always a good thing.
2026-05-27 13:38:50
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justjoanna___
Joanna__🍄 :
when you're in peri menopause come back to us, the effects on your body are immeasurable and I feel you're completely not representing this fairly.
2026-05-15 15:57:37
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tinah76.05
Tina 🌈 :
Feel you’re dismissing the effect perimenopause does have on our body weights wise 🤔 I’m not using it as an excuse, but it is a very valid reason for my weight gain. Added to night shift worker so my routine for eating, sleeping and exercising is different and harder. I’d love to lose weight, but I’m finding it very difficult to do it.
2026-05-14 00:14:47
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laurasxshore
laurasxshore :
This is my Problem lol
2026-05-13 19:09:26
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stefgreen1
stef green :
I honestly struggle so much with calorie counting!
2026-05-13 21:03:03
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melaniemoorley
Melanie Moorley :
How do I work out my deficit , I’m currently 13st ? Many thanks
2026-06-01 15:34:40
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monique_sienaert4
Pit :
What App can I use to track my calories? Any suggestions would be helpful.🌺
2026-05-14 16:58:30
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gz_pilates
Gigi Zdravics :
This is such a helpful video!! My main problem is honestly I don’t know how much calories I burn
2026-05-26 19:23:57
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1982loula
Lou :
They make it quite a bit harder. Yes you still lose it but it definitely is slower once perimenopause kicks in!
2026-05-13 17:38:37
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sarahlouhodgson
Sarah Lou Hodgson :
Hypothyroidism, breastfeeding knackered mamma here. Consistently tracking for 5 weeks and 4lb down. Much slower than I'd like but least it's going down
2026-05-13 19:03:38
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sydrebecca
Syd ☆ :
This makes so much sense
2026-05-13 17:52:01
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anastasiatraveladventure
AnastasiaTravelAdventures :
And that’s why i love your page! You are so real 🥰💯
2026-05-13 20:16:42
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becca_lou999
🎀𝐼𝓇𝒾𝓈𝒽_𝐵𝑒𝒸𝒸𝒶🎀👑🐧 :
I have lost 3.81 kilograms sticking to my 500 calorie deficit and I dont even feel like im in one ❤️using your tips by filling up on veggies and protein it works!!!
2026-05-13 20:58:41
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time_2_float
time 2 float :
I save 200 Mon - Fri which then gives me an extra 1000 for wkend
2026-05-15 06:57:39
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sandrazegarraodon1
Sandra ODonnell :
This is what happened to me all the time! Monday till Friday i eat amazing, go to the gym, but Saturday and Sunday comes and I'm eating shitty food, I just don't know how to not lose all the good calories in my week. Specifically because weekends is when my boyfriend and i go out to eat or to see friends. Sometimes i think i have to be more disciplined but my mind told me “u deserve this”. And then when is Monday and i woke up feeling like shit because of everything that I ate.
2026-05-13 18:57:03
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