Christie Hoffman
Region: US
Wednesday 13 May 2026 18:18:54 GMT
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Bree Green :
everything you say feels like a healing balm 😭😭😭
2026-05-13 18:53:15
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xoAzure :
Ok I did and you’re right BUT it comes with a huge price: you lost most of your family because they will pick their own comfort over you…
2026-07-07 02:24:06
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Michael Dee :
I cut off my family for a few years until I heard my father was sick. I went home and played nice with everyone. My feelings never changed, but I was the bigger person for a week.
2026-05-14 03:14:58
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Pdiddy :
This is a saver! Love your content
2026-05-13 19:37:46
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Victoria Whitley :
This is why I moved across the country lol never felt better!!
2026-07-12 03:29:06
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Carri Bloomfield :
my mother ALWAYS tells me this bs.
2026-06-29 19:52:03
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B :
Ugh. Literally going through this right now with family.
2026-07-10 03:18:08
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r.m. :
No more people pleasing.
2026-05-16 15:03:34
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Melanie E :
I only tolerated bad behavior because we were related. Now I have peace and they can think what they want. I have boundaries now
2026-07-04 04:00:50
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Maple_leaf_4evr :
How do I handle this at work though?
2026-07-07 23:34:43
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The Patton Group @ ARC Realty :
I haven’t spoken to my mother in 17 years. I’m not the bigger person.
2026-05-13 21:23:47
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Chiki Jao :
I needed this. Thank you ❤️
2026-07-05 20:36:51
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Kate Logan :
Ooof. This is my lived experience.
2026-07-08 21:58:47
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makomarc234❌ :
I'll ALWAYS be the "Bigger Person" then walk away silently...
2026-05-13 21:47:45
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PookieBear :
Honestly, so sick of this kind of shi.t. Family or not - I don’t have time “to be the bigger person”. Thank you for your content ❤️
2026-05-13 21:01:03
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Rach :
My entire family said all those toxic things my whole life, I used to dive into meetups and get that but now I weigh the pros and cons of every single phone call/text and listen to my nervous system.
2026-05-21 14:33:48
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Partyof5 :
HOW did U know!!!! 😳😂
2026-05-13 19:07:07
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KjMiller64 :
So true, apparently I’ve been the problem for years. Oh well.🤷♂️😵💫
2026-05-20 17:27:10
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Eliz60618 :
Nope. I’m Betty Petty. I will talk about the problem and ask them to be accountable
2026-06-04 01:50:24
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GatorPup :
being the bigger person is said to release the offender of responsibility and accountability!!
2026-06-09 16:16:35
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QueenTay :
Correct!!! I am not being the bigger person & I was never the root cause
2026-05-19 15:43:16
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Birdpoop :
I’ve always taken the high road. I’m done.
2026-06-28 19:31:49
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Lolli 🍭✨ :
Correct ✅
2026-05-13 19:08:41
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Sappermp :
Wasn’t sure where this was going at first but this is the HEALTHIEST advice anyone can receive!! 👌 Well said.
2026-05-14 05:33:08
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vanessaneilson :
They won’t. When you remove yourself they believe you are guilty of what they say! It’s not that it’s because you choose not to respond because you can’t win either way
2026-05-27 13:04:46
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