@rewirewithrach: size doesn’t matter…. It’s about the meaning the FA system assigns to it. A “vulnerability hangover” isn’t a weakness. It’s your protection system doing its job based on outdated information.. And that means, it can be updated. If you’re open to a safety led approach that rewires this experience whether it’s specific to dating dynamics or you want to dive deeper into a fully structured approach for FA healing there is a path to meet you check the LINK IN BIO for ways to work with me (still have questions on which path would be best for you? DM me) #attachmentstyle #Love #dating #rewirewithrach #fypシ
mmmhhhmmm. I'll get comfortable, be having a conversation, the topic may bring up a related story from my past, it comes out my mouth... and then I immediately clamp down, like "oh crap!" and it's not necessarily like "I need to not share about myself" but rather "Now they've got ammo about my past to use against me" - I always wish I could take it back, like I'm losing parts of myself if I share them.
2026-06-18 11:18:05
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Jackie :
Need to move to another country 😅
2026-05-13 20:43:54
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Kassem Halabi :
unfortunately, this is actually a sad thing
2026-05-15 20:58:27
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Corey 🇨🇦 :
Jesus Christ, I think I might also be a fearful avoidant. I wasn’t one until I dated one and got to experience what a discard was. But I do lean more anxious. I actually feel this way often especially with setting boundaries or expressing my own needs. Because my ex overthink every single thing it gets triggered so quickly I’m afraid to say anything. My nervous system is just starting to tap out all on its own
2026-05-19 18:06:59
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manah.sheikh :
Girl please! The last video couple of us wanted to know about break ups and finality given distinction from discard!
2026-05-13 19:05:24
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Andrea :
Why someone who is FA doesn’t want to meet me? Please l am confused, what’s happening?
2026-05-14 14:28:21
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shardz88 :
why isit always the 3 month mark. tell you the world then pull away. my situation is abit complicated like because we just told our son that im his dad after just finding out im his dad.
2026-05-14 09:24:30
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Dyöza :
Because a question mark requires an answer..
2026-05-14 01:41:18
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Serena💥♎️🇮🇹🇬🇧🇪🇸🇫🇷💫 :
yeah 100% accurate
2026-05-13 20:08:16
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Jeanine :
YEP! He called after some distance, said “seven years of buildup between us,” asked for a restart, dinner, etc…ghosted day of dinner for 2+ months now.
2026-05-14 10:10:33
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Georgia Lee :
It can even be the other persons vulnerability.
2026-05-14 09:32:36
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Morgan :
that's... fun. thanks for reading my mind. likely the same reason when my brain kicks down like this, hugs with feel exposing and unsafe, and I go still when maybe not long ago, I would sob in their arms. so fuuuun.
2026-05-14 19:22:54
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User2144566 :
I went no contact 😭 cause I got mixed signals
2026-05-14 17:18:17
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𝔐𝔬𝔯𝔱𝔶 :
Damn about that ? Mark 100% true… specifically with someone who we know, has 1% chance or not approbating the vulnerability
2026-05-13 18:49:57
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user3457999887654 :
So me
2026-05-13 23:14:21
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Dee 🦋 :
It’s meeee 😂
2026-05-29 00:16:04
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