@sbiery: After filing for divorce and each completing our own financial review, there was a bit of a lull in activity. I’m not really sure why. We’re still living together and things at the house are strained at best. After some prompting, our lawyers started to work through selecting a mediator. They recommended a few and we were able to pick who we wanted. There was some back and forth, but thankfully we agreed quickly and it wasn’t an issue. Then the mediator offers some dates to start mediaton. Ours is scheduled a few months out. They book in 1/2 days sessions and you can schedule additional as needed after the first one. The goal here is to avoid going to trial. #divorce #betrayal #divorceprocess
I know this is going to sound counter to everything g you have probably heard…try again to work it out, maybe you have already, but I am saying try to save your marriage. Marriages can survive an affair(s) if the one having the affair truly wants to try and your willing to forgive him. Please do absolutely everything you can to save your marriage.
2026-05-14 00:51:44
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noedelafuentejr :
Good luck stay strong
2026-06-08 23:40:27
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dtodd14 :
Been through it sometimes it sucks n sometimes it doesn’t
2026-06-11 04:10:02
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HPD72-100%Wi :
Once cheating happens on either side it's already done, now it's how long it takes for it to be completely done! But I do give 👍 to my ex we sat and talked it out and signed the papers,
2026-06-10 14:46:24
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lucyazoon :
it's sad🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-05-14 23:23:25
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Valentine 💌 :
FYI. Mediation is just a step to see if you can resolve the situation before going to court. I wanna say probably 80 to 90% of all mediations end up going to divorce court.
2026-06-09 10:15:46
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ryderjohnson :
your very pretty. you will find someone who will treat you as you should be
2026-06-09 10:19:35
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robingragg0 :
I know its a nightmare
2026-06-15 17:49:23
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Sdavis1980 :
how can anyone afford this.. we make about 120k combined. have tons of bills..i only make about 45k of it😳😳😳
2026-06-10 21:52:40
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David H :
Have fun
2026-06-09 22:34:10
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tinamears2006 :
sorry you're going through this
2026-06-10 11:50:05
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Charles Crist572 :
Get a lawyer. I e been divorced now for 6 yrs .
2026-06-10 05:15:31
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Lady :
Add me
2026-06-07 17:15:27
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Chris Waters :
That sucks. So sorry you’re dealing with this.
2026-06-10 00:45:03
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Frankdtank :
Here in New York I went to WE THE People they prepared all the documents needed for a divorce. NO lawyer needed. You served the papers period and done. Unless you’re fighting for a home, car, boat. ETC then you let them know what type of writing agreement you want and that’s it. Remember if you have kids he has to pay child support until they’re 23 and in college. And he is responsible foryou alimony.
2026-06-06 20:54:28
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Mark Strickland :
TWO AFFAIRS?????
2026-06-09 04:55:51
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ky59 :
Good luck
2026-06-09 16:04:56
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themilkman47 :
I didn’t know bout divorce til I filed
2026-06-08 20:29:52
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james :
that u know of-remember that
2026-05-14 20:45:46
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ronalddalewilson2 :
been there done that! it's hell any way you look at it 🥰
2026-06-10 16:14:39
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Andrew Hyet :
Going through one myself after 23 years left without telling me got served that’s how I found out got a attorney two
2026-06-06 00:00:38
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robriker :
my stbxw and I both spoke with lawyers. I literally can't afford one. thats how financially screwed she got me. we've agreed to mediation and im going to file in early June after i get back from a work trip
2026-05-25 03:15:59
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garthhallberg7 :
I’m 64 and looking at divorce
2026-06-08 19:20:04
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SunshineFridayGirl :
Do you work outside of the home? If so, do you have a good job?
2026-06-09 09:25:45
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lukesmomma (Liz) :
I hired a divorce coach and it was worth every single. penny. I almost settled for less than I deserved and if it wasn't for her, I would be in a much different situation.
2026-06-06 03:40:33
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