@sbiery: Anyone else panic a bit every time they get an email from their lawyer? It’s either something to react to or something to decide. Today it was picking a date for mediation. My eyes have been opened to how bad things really were and how much I wasn’t really willing to see in our marriage. I don’t want to go back. But there’s something about knowing the end is officially coming that has me sad, scared, and resisting this next step. #divorce #betrayal #cheating #divorceprocess #sadvibes
you are saving your life. don't delay it.
I was married for 37 years. I shouldn't have waited that long
2026-05-13 20:36:42
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dorispatton0 :
A divorce is like a death and there's a lot of grief and sadness and anger. Give yourself time.
2026-05-14 02:45:28
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swb :
My sister,🙏he is truly disrespecting you it is going to be tough but you will recover.
2026-06-07 04:20:53
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Erika Michelle :
You aren’t alone. 1 yr in for me and our stories are crazy similar even with timelines of both affairs, length of marriage ect…. Even 1 yr later I still have moments where I feel paralyzed and still can’t believe we are where we are. It took me 6 months to even file. You aren’t alone & you will get through it! Much love ❤️xoxo
2026-06-07 05:58:13
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Ann Coster :
It's because you still love your version of him. True love is a strong emotion that doesn't just die one day. Your brain knows the truth but your heart doesn't want to believe.
2026-05-13 21:03:54
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AB ATX :
He has shown you who he really is. You have to believe it, even though it's the biggest disappointment of your life. I'm so sorry. My story is very similar to yours. I promise you it gets so much better.
2026-05-14 03:09:28
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Jerry Gross :
I totally get it, it's like you have known a normal for so many years that it's what you're used to, you know it has to end but it's not something you've wanted and who wants to deal with lawyers or any of this and you just wish this knot in your stomach would go away, I'm sorry 😢
2026-05-13 23:23:28
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Jenny :
You will be okay. Yes, you are grieving a loss. This is normal. Don’t be afraid to seek counseling for this. Very helpful. Peace be with you. ❤️
2026-05-13 20:31:34
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ThorLab🐶🇨🇦 :
It’s like a death. Be gentie with yourself.
2026-05-13 23:16:05
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Trish :
im so sorry its scary. I feel he should move out so you can go though the stages of letting go..❤️
2026-05-13 21:43:27
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April :
I totally understand. It’s unreal. It sucks. It’s so sad when you realize you won’t ever have him in your future.
2026-05-13 21:59:15
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Ktj :
It’s wicked hard!! I know how you feel! 35 yr marriage done! Yup! But I am here to tell you that you will get through this! And on the other side you will be ok!!! Sending big hugs❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-14 01:25:48
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Absolutely :
The only way through it….is through it. You will be ok. It’s the right thing to do. You only have one life. Dont waste it
2026-05-14 02:16:02
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Domino :
He has moved on sadly My best to you
2026-05-13 20:05:11
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cynann-G7 :
Girl, let it go and let God. You will be alright. The longer you hold on to it, the longer you will hurt. Letting go, allows you to start the healing process. Stay encouraged! 🙏
2026-06-07 04:52:34
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Don - a good listener :
It is devastating and divorce can be brutal. My learning, work with the process, for your children’s well-being. Find a good therapist, vent those feelings and focus on you and your life when there .
2026-06-07 05:38:26
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Christine Oconnor1960 :
it's heartbreak
2026-06-07 05:31:51
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Paul Bate958 :
Sara u got this he dosnt deserve u.!
2026-06-07 02:41:45
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rxtch17 :
Just keep telling yourself the cons that have brought you to this point. You don’t want to continue living your life unhappy. It gets better. You deserve so much more.
2026-05-14 09:58:33
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cm_griffis :
Allowing myself to feel it, regardless if I can intellectualize the truth, has been the most helpful thing. You are allowed to be sad about the end of your marriage, you are valid. You can understand it is over and also grieve the future you thought you’d have. ❤️I am right there with you, one foot in front of the other.
2026-05-14 10:51:48
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matt❌68 :
The five stages of grief: Denial leads to Bargaining. Transitions are difficult. All the best ✌
2026-05-14 01:20:34
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Big mom :
Mine is 30 yrs old, I promise you will be better for it, it’s heartbreaking but GOD doesn’t make mistakes, if it’s happening it’s for a reason , GOD saved me
2026-05-13 20:15:41
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Rockhound99 :
I'm hard times, I always think of one of my favorite quotes, 'The only way out is through!' You never know how strong you are until you have to be! You can do this. Sad days, good days, hard days, and just days, you'll have them all, but you will get thru it for you and your kids! You can do it! Prayer and turning to the Lord could help too! You never know unless you try!
2026-05-14 02:32:17
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April Donnell :
You are super strong and your beautiful heart will will heal. Thank you for sharing your journey, it is helping me tremendously! Big hugs 🫂
2026-05-14 02:31:14
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ThorLab🐶🇨🇦 :
Aww 🥰 big hugs. You are doing great.
2026-05-13 23:15:21
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