but but they don't listen the first 4 times I ask in the nice tone until I start yelling...
2026-05-14 01:48:43
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🌻Zeeh🌻 :
I’m not asking nicely 5 times, sorry!
2026-05-14 12:07:53
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K.A.C :
this applies to adults as well
2026-06-04 11:15:16
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Sean Draw 🇮🇪🇦🇺 :
I often apologise for how I speak to my kids. Not because I just yell. Sometimes they don't listen until I yell. I am actually very chill 🤣but after I yell, I feel terrible, and I think, they are only kids, I should be more mature. I am trying my best, but refuse to also raise a brat that can do what they want because I didn't tell ya know. Anyway, love this content. I want to be the best I can be for my kids and always open to parenting suggestions
2026-05-14 03:56:29
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Susie :
And the tone they accept from others when they get older ☹️
2026-05-14 00:13:36
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andrearotz :
How do I help my daughter who goes from 0-100 over nothing. Something falls the world is ending and she’s crying. I want her to know her feeling are valid but I also want her to know little things are not worth getting THAT emotional over.
2026-05-13 21:28:36
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JennyCunas :
I need to come back to this video every day so I remind myself I need to do better 😞
2026-06-04 23:27:28
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EarlthePearl :
He’s right. As adults my children struggle to hear me because my natural voice cadence is low, they thought it was loud. No, y’all didn’t listen until I got loud.🙂 I agree that tone matters because my children are yellers. When possible: take the time to go to them, disrupt the distractions, and direct in a firm calm tone.❤️
2026-05-15 11:29:41
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Diana :
Listen...I started this when my baby was 1.5 years old. When he's doing something he's not, I kneel down on the floor so we're eye to eye and I speak SUPER softly. Firm and calm, but soft. Now he's almost 2.5 and he says "Mommy's being serious..." He knows!! And being serious has nothing to do with being loud.
2026-05-15 22:00:36
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kg333 :
Man, my husband needs to hear this. Thank you.
2026-05-13 22:08:50
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SharpCrew :
Guilty as charged! 😳😳😳
2026-05-15 14:11:43
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Baddest.inc :
I know I try to work on it 😭 but damn I am so triggered.
2026-05-14 09:23:57
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Queen mamma :
when we need a pause what do we.say?? I need a break and step away? cause they be following me
2026-05-13 23:51:36
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T o n y a 🦋 :
Speak to them in a tone you would be proud to hear Come out of them 🙌🏼 its my practice 🙏🏼
2026-05-15 13:24:13
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Adam James-Davis :
so true 💯facts
2026-06-04 08:25:02
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Feef :
The influence of the school environment and peers can also be significant.
2026-06-05 09:54:46
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Lady of bigger dreams :
I am at the right place at the right time glory to Jesus who brought me here
2026-06-04 13:17:45
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Melissa Eggen :
Lord help us
2026-06-04 11:14:21
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Joy MS❤️ :
keep telling us! Don't tire out. am steadily changing.
2026-05-14 08:32:07
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therealqueenb89 :
Lord I need to fix myself so badddd!
2026-05-14 16:59:32
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AR :
But how do I work on this when I ask the same thing over and over or they aren’t listening and escalating
2026-05-14 01:54:40
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Susana Rodriguez :
Heavy on the “kids are people too”
2026-05-14 18:51:47
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Queen mamma :
this..its soo hard. cause thats all we learned so having to retrain myself and train my kids ughhhh
2026-05-13 23:50:54
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latorythomas :
You are out here retraining parents and salvaging relationships!! Thank you!
2026-05-13 23:30:46
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btsarmy07_2013 :
Can a child unlearn a communication pattern if the parent stops. Also realistically how long would that actually take before a child models the parents “new and calmer” comma pattern? Thank you
2026-05-14 10:31:18
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