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bentobox :

i lowkey wish i could be an avoidant. anxious attachment is actually killing me every day

fran :

F :

So how do you break the cycle ?

Sting_Gt_Line :

This exact thing happened and she was avoidant. We both said we’ve never felt this way so fast about someone. We’re both grown and Independent. She said she’s going through too much and not healed. Decided to give her space now, I just want her to feel the same but I feel like she might not come back and that’s my biggest fear.

Paul :

I hate being anxious, wtf

aizen⚡️ :

my last relationship

gneous :

It's really the most heartbreaking dynamic. Speaking from experience

Madden Kilgore :

Holy timing

luke :

i’m craving reassurance. i’m scared of her leaving. she’s all i’ve ever wanted and i don’t want her to go. I’m having the time of my life. but she pulls away and idk what to do. Ik im too much but idk how to handle her pulling away. i want something real. i want a constant in my life. i want to feel the happiness she gives me always.

. :

so what should i do cuz this is literally me and her

Matafy :

But the avoidant refuses to fix it.

Attmatt66 :

Here’s what happens; IT FUCKING SUCKKKKKSSSS

Hass :

these videos are now delaying my healing.

Nøah :

Put this on her feed please

AJ :

I be staying so patient but it’s getting to a point…

liams priv :

Would have been useful 2 months ago

. :

Holy timing

Anton :

She didn’t wanna fix it. That was the issue.

CARNIEMEDIC83 :

Im the anxious one in my relationship that ended today because of it actually. I didnt know that this was my issue. My fiance, and myself split earlier today. I hope to God we can save this, because i love her so much.

clarksontxsean :

Will she come back?

Eric Wenzel :

This is my marriage, please help me

Morty :

I started off anxious and then became an avoidant and she was ok but I became numb. I didn’t want to go out with her and when I did I wasn’t myself I was more quiet smiled less

dat1guy13 :

in the 3rd cycle like this but this time I'm pulling back I see the pattern and she's not ready for that convo

jeremiah suarez :

was in this situation before, got dumped in the end:) i was a secure person that turned anxious after years of push and pulls. I learnt this cycle, told her and she acknowledge it, promises changes but always end up going back to square one. Eventually put all the blame on me instead. Now, im struggling w trust issues and my self-worth :)