@angelmelendez123:

sfinx :

loyalty is earned trough commitment,if there isn’t,no one is gonna asume they should stay loyal. dating and talking are two different things, during the talking stage u are trying to see if y’all compatible, there should be honesty cause y’all not on exclusive talking contract😂 like talking stage is for getting to know one another if one of u don’t like it,it will stop,if both like it you talk and start dating then stop talking to others

briannadoss160 :

i think yall forget what dating is.... it perfectly okay to go on multiple dates and feel people out. youre deciding on someone whose supposed to be a partner not a one night kinda thing as long as youre not leading ppl on or lyin theres no issues.

Stephen Scott :

The issue here in modern dating, is if you’re using dating apps, a lot of people seem to match with a dozen people and try to have a dozen convos going on at once, or having multiple dates a week with different people. What you should be doing, is chose one match to talk to and see if there’s chemistry, then go on a date, and if you chose to see them for a second date then you should inherently be exclusive without needing to even talk about it.

Sofiq 🍭 :

Yes, but I think “the talking stage” is directly defined by not planning to date them yet. It's fine if it's your preference, but there's really no need for loyalty for something that's not established and doesn't affect other people

Anthony :

After reading this comment section, I would say it boils down to how long you want to wait until you get into a relationship if you’re someone who moves fast then yeah I only talk to one person at a time but if you’re someone who wants to wait months then talk to multiple

melymaaus :

Yes Bro but what if you wait for him like 9 months 🥲

Shay B / Content Creator 🫶🏼 :

We were in the talking stage for alittle over 4 months and now we’re dating exclusively with the intention of being in a relationship. We have all the talks, we do everything we would do as a couple, just no label (right now). Everyone thinks you have to automatically get into a relationship with someone as soon as you meet them, it’s okay to just date without the label for a bit.

Taylor 🌼 :

Used think that but now nobody gets my loyalty until they’ve put in the effort.

𝓖 :

at least someone said it

🍒 :

thiss imagine talking to someone thinking that they actually like you and that you have something special and them talking to ten other people at the same time

user1590140766908 :

But if they show sign not interested best believe I’m out

ѕσρнιєʝαиє ❀ :

wait this isn’t universal?

eeesstii :

THIS! Omg I always been like this, even when deep down I know they never want me for something serious. But as I wanted and had interest in them that’s why I was loyal.

inimitablejean._ :

Jordan :

Brodie I stay loyal when she didnt like me back and we were strictly friends

🟫🟫🟫🟫🟫🟫28 :

It’s just about being a decent person

Giggleshitter :

It’s called the talking stage for a reason. You act like it’s official dating when it’s not. That’s where people get confused.

actualanafan :

people always think they have better options 🙄

𝓂𝑒𝓁🕷️ :

but it feels like he only likes the attention i give him bc he goes hours without talking to me …

1920's Flapper Girl :

Yep so true just learned this

andrejivanov761 :

i already do , delted and blocked other women and do everything to become perfct

yareﾒ𝟶 :

No fr

Samir Nemri :

i pray for that ✌🙋

🌙Camille ྀིྀི :

Was it not normal in the first place?

Madison :

i stayed loyal and eventually let him go cause he wasn’t at all