This is in no way equivalent to a body count. This is about sexual preference, and it has serious ramifications down the road if ignored. For both parties. Regardless of the way she found this information out, this is a gift to her. He might not want to admit he is gay, but he isn’t straight. Nobody seeks out same-sex activities when they feel weak, unless they like it. It’s neither good nor bad, but it is essential to share with a romantic partner. This situation does not play out well, and it invariably will result is disaster. I have been in those shoes, and it was completely life altering. I have spent a considerable amount of time with “straight spouse” groups and was in counseling for quite a while, and this is serious.
2026-06-13 19:50:35
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Deanna :
Men can be bi, too!!! But it's WAY less socially acceptable to be out as a bi man.
2026-08-06 00:24:28
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Eldritch Goblin :
Brutal and fair
2026-08-06 03:41:57
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sunny893 :
This is my favorite response ever.
2026-08-12 04:58:17
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Alison Gunn :
I keep seeing these stories about people snooping for information about a spouse or partner, and all I can think now is, what happens if you humiliate that person and they have unresolved shame that leads to violent anger? Why is it okay to snoop, when the repercussions could be so dire? It seems extremely foolish to take the risk.
2026-08-12 00:09:48
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Ari ♡ :
I agree, my big thing is don’t snoop for information in general but especially if you’re not prepared for what you will do with that information. Also i disagree with people saying that he needed to disclose his sexuality/sexual preferences- no one is entitled to that information, regardless of the relationship. Also you can’t be mad at someone for whatever relations they had outside of y’alls relationship. But yeah overall definitely not compatible
2026-08-05 09:06:11
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j91737828281 :
It’s okay to have preferences girl. I wouldn’t date a bi man but that’s just me 🤷🏻♀️
2026-08-11 03:36:27
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Tialeste :
As usual, I concur. But I doubt she’ll take this advice, as I’ve been in similar situations and was always willing to turn a blind eye because “I love him so much”. Gah.
2026-08-07 02:58:56
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Katy Catfight :
Cannot believe she snooped into his messages and such. That is really awful.
2026-08-06 23:08:31
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Em⭐ :
brilliant 🔥
2026-05-26 17:05:02
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Mila&Luno :
Girl RUN
2026-08-06 16:34:11
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alcurtis5 :
This is a recipe for disaster. If she stays she will always wonder.
2026-08-06 21:56:29
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P. 💚 :
it’s so weird to shame a woman for not wanting to be with a clearly gay man wth 😵💫
2026-08-04 20:12:50
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KrisT :
He deserves better
2026-06-30 09:55:37
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themelissamerchant :
What does it matter?
2026-05-15 17:39:35
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coco :
Sometimes you don’t know what you need to do unless you separate first.
2026-05-14 13:06:11
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labgirl16 :
he's calling participating in gay sex weak? it sounds like he's forcing himself to be hetero. yes, OP was wrong for snooping but her boyfriend seems to have bigger problems.
2026-08-11 13:31:21
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Houseofsyx :
Her preferences are valid. Her judgement is terrible. I feel so bad for him and hope he finds someone that accepts who he is.
2026-08-08 12:42:23
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sidneymannheim :
Alas, I think you are right.
2026-05-16 04:04:53
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Didi :
GAY!
2026-07-25 00:49:45
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stonecipher98277jeanette :
👏👏👏
2026-06-24 03:49:46
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MsReev :
👍👍👍
2026-06-26 00:08:00
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May J :
👏
2026-05-14 13:47:27
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that dawg :
him saying he was "weak" says it all. he is a gay man and will cheat with men down the road.
2026-08-05 02:04:58
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JulieBob :
So she’s okay with being friends with someone who is either bi or gay, but she can’t have a relationship with someone who did some experimenting before she ever knew them? I am completely hetero, and I don’t see how it matters.
2026-05-14 19:04:26
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