I don’t know if this would help you as well but I hope that it does. When seeking reassurance I do it in a very specific way now. I say “I need to be loved loudly right now”
2026-05-14 13:34:39
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Donnavon Weatherley :
Man those post split walks hit crazy different honestly
2026-05-15 20:26:49
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Alexis 💋 :
Sometimes I can’t feel the split until it’s to late tho….
2026-06-08 06:41:59
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LivingDeadGirl :
Worst feeling bc you genuinely want peace
2026-05-17 23:53:18
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CharlieBee.EXE :
honestly question no hate. but as someone with many friends with bpd including my besty I love and support them and do my best to provide them all the reassurance and love I can muster. but is there ever a moment when its ok for me to say no and step aeay for a little while. I cant help but feel so much guilt and shame any time I get overwhelmed it hurts
2026-05-15 18:40:13
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heaven_sahm2 :
I just wanted a simple conversation instead of being ignored for how I feel.
2026-06-15 13:53:41
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Sav :
We just want to be loved, reassured, and understood. None of which we feel like we get.
2026-07-01 17:06:04
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Hailey :
After 10 years of having BPD I finally found that isolating myself when I feel myself splitting helps SO MUCH.
2026-05-19 12:58:11
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Ray De La Muerte :
I hate myself every time this happens 😣
2026-06-16 13:58:11
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D :
I just want to feel safe.
2026-06-16 02:52:30
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Jessie :
Me and my bf both have BPD 🫠 idk if we have one calm day when we’re apart but when we’re together everything is so perfect
2026-05-14 21:59:38
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Mik-A-doo :
Oh shit do we all do that? I always feel pretty empty for that tbh
2026-05-19 03:06:01
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alex :
story of my fucking life.
2026-06-17 19:12:54
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Ellie 🩷 :
been there, love you stranger 🫰🏻
2026-05-16 18:26:34
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ :
I have done this with every relationship I’ve ever had, romantic or not. I’m 25 and I still haven’t learned how to manage this. I’m scared I never will and that I’ll just be in a constant loop of pushing everyone away.
2026-05-15 00:40:10
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Macayla Hamilton :
Story of my LIFE. I hear you diva. 💔
2026-05-14 15:32:09
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Devyn | Self Care & Frag 🌷 :
I loved living in Alabama for this reason crying to the trees & wind just does something
2026-05-14 15:00:18
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lifewithleelee2325 :
oh my people 🥰🥰
2026-05-17 00:34:07
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Jello :
I dont need love I need understanding
2026-06-17 15:03:15
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eh to z borderpolar 🇨🇦❌ :
I always feel so guilty ✨
2026-06-09 18:38:05
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Sherry Burke :
its hard though.. i want to be neded and loved but at the same time i dont even want to speak to you.. this econdpregnancy seems to be amplifying it
2026-06-11 14:23:52
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tor👁️👩🏾❤️💋👩🏾 :
Literally me today
2026-05-15 00:58:07
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Aly Brianne 💃🏻 :
I just wanted to be held and told that we’d make it thru this… but I’m single now
2026-05-18 22:29:27
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