I don’t understand the difference. The first example sounded like addressing the behavior too
2026-05-14 23:03:11
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G :
I don't see the difference between "makes me feel" or I "struggle"
2026-05-15 05:07:58
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Jenzagrin :
Too complicated - I’m happy being single
2026-05-16 00:12:17
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favour_esther :
My man goes silent for weeks. He doesn’t call, texts or even return mine whenever I call or text. He can go weeks without reaching out and it affects me emotionally. I just feel anxious whenever he does that.
2026-05-17 11:11:21
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user7092924079061 :
That’s a great word to use! Thanks! He doesn’t text me during the day, when I text him, he may or may not respond. When we’re together and he gets a text he’s on it like flies on sh**! Or he’ll be on another social platform while sitting next to me. Recently, we were on the phone and all of a sudden I hear a reel playing from his computer or tablet. It made me feel unimportant or boring to him. It’s a real struggle. 😞
2026-05-14 19:35:59
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sarahndean :
My argument with my husband always is “it’s not what you said, it’s how you say it” and that I should know he’s not intentionally trying to hurt me so I shouldn’t get my feelings hurt…
2026-05-19 02:53:44
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zion.yisrael :
My problem is I have the inner dialogue with myself and come to a conclusion that I never share and just move on
2026-05-15 23:57:27
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joelledetlefsenfo :
Genuinely curious, how is it different to say “I struggle when you do xyz” than “I feel [insert emotion]” when you do “xyz?” It feels like the same energy to me so I would love to hear more so I can understand
2026-05-14 22:24:36
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elliespudding :
I don’t wanna play these games anymore I just want to love freely
2026-05-16 10:00:39
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Camryn :
Alright, my man is late to everything, even when I’m with him, he makes us late no matter what, he knows I get stressed and upset by it, but yet he’s still late
2026-05-14 19:23:45
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amberbye :
I feel ___ when you ____ because my past reflects _____ I’d prefer _____
2026-05-15 05:25:48
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JubiBelle :
the word "just" is so minimizing. stop using it.
2026-05-15 22:47:29
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Lex 🩷 :
Struggle is an emotion. So you need to say "you said you were going to call, and didn't" you mention the behavior not how it makes you feel. Bc what you said is literally the same
2026-05-19 22:56:16
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Riley 🍒🍒 :
like he said he would love to go on a proper date with me but wouldn’t make time for me. how do i communicate so that he would take initiative and not making him feel bad?
2026-05-14 16:55:02
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genevievepfitzer :
Exactly the same
2026-05-15 13:11:27
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madi.genevieve :
this makes no sense.
2026-05-15 17:31:14
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CJ :
Same thing sis
2026-05-17 00:40:45
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A~Gave 5Roses🥀 :
The issue is he doesn’t want to officially become my man
2026-05-14 22:16:49
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appparajacqs :
Outside of seeing each other, we seem to have fallen in to limited communication that’s mostly centred around logistics on the day we are due to see each other. I don’t need constant or even daily texting but I do value those little midweek check ins, “how’s your week going?”, “how’s work?”. Even just updates from him. It makes me feel thought of and more connected.
2026-05-14 22:37:36
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Krista Ritzer :
my husband checks out on his phone constantly when we are together
2026-05-14 18:14:46
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Gold Honey :
I just want him to be obsessed with me lol
2026-05-21 16:01:31
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xo_lala1214 :
Sounds the same to me
2026-05-18 18:49:58
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Pamela Owens :
Love this. Does… I lose interest when you don’t plan things… work?
2026-05-17 04:04:16
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Usagi Moon :
did that and got response of " you think too much, i didnt intended for u to feel this way"
2026-05-16 15:10:33
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Shelley🖤🥀 :
I’m curious to know why he’s not curious about me. I’ve gone on three dates with him clearly there’s chemistry. He’s nice kind, warm funny a gentleman, flirtatious not pushy. I know a lot about him, but he doesn’t ask any questions about me and my life?
2026-05-15 03:15:20
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