My husband has this and he describes it as needing two to three business days to process his emotions. 😂 I love him.
2026-05-15 16:52:16
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Uhliviuh :
This is why I hate surprises. I need to know what’s going on so I can prepare my reaction
2026-05-14 23:44:56
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𓆞 ~⤷ . .-.. .. ~ ⋆˚꩜。 :
Thank you because I didn’t know how to word this and most of the time it makes me seem like a bad person when I’m really not trying, like I forget to even mention having alexithymia
2026-07-06 05:16:04
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Pip :
is this akin to compartmentalizing? because I definitely have knee jerk emotional responses, but everything else your referring to is totally accurate for me. I tend to make the conscious choice to delay emotions/processing until I feel its appropriate or safe, I suppose?
2026-05-14 20:07:49
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theangelonyourshoulder :
can this happen in the other direction? I find myself crying thinking about the possibility of something sad, and then when it happens im no longer bothered by it.
2026-05-15 21:18:17
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user7250801171254 :
I can’t choose when I’m gonna feel it, but I can choose when NOT to feel it…. For a while (indeterminate length of time)
2026-05-14 22:27:23
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Ijusswatch 🇨🇦 :
I don’t know how to unmask 😩😩
2026-05-30 08:12:15
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ryotplz :
This was really noticeable when me and my daughter have lost loved ones.
2026-06-07 02:10:12
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Heather Feather :
My mom, who was born in 1942, way before we knew much about autism and zero about female autism, used to say, "I never know what I'm feeling until years later." lol audience def genetic. I relate to so much you say and also to your delight in curiosity about being autistic and also appreciating your joy that comes from autism. I would not want to be any other way!
2026-05-14 21:09:42
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Didn’t even realize I was in love with a guy until like 5 years later
2026-06-21 19:26:15
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Sent From H**l :
I cried in an Olive Garden hysterically 3 months after my grandma died. 🫣 We had to leave. Never even made the connection
2026-05-15 16:02:05
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Chelsea 🇨🇦 :
not to make this para social or anything. but every video of yours I watch I am learning so much about myself and healing myself. it's like getting advice from an aunt or older sister. it's quite nice. thank you for putting all of this out there
2026-05-14 20:33:45
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tatys :
Read Clear the Noise by Leona Vale if you're struggling with anxiety/racing thoughts. literally changed my life.
2026-05-22 19:22:01
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hi.imnic :
my dad died when I was 12 and I wasnt depressed until 15 lol
2026-05-15 03:59:36
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Nicole :
yes. all this. 💯
2026-06-21 18:54:31
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paulinaautumn :
okay so maybe this is why I’m incapable of knowing if I like a song fr until the 4th or 5th listen
2026-05-15 12:49:05
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kionamoves :
It’s also having trouble communicating emotions in words. What has helped me with this is to first communicate my emotions to myself via body or movement, color schemes, objects and textures. For example sadness shows up as like low energy, sunken in, dark blue/grey. I’ll recognize those things before it registers as “sadness”
2026-05-14 23:10:48
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Ms. Andri :
I have that same dress! I get so many compliments on it. It's my favorite ever.
2026-05-14 20:46:41
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articvixen :
My dad died at the end of August 2020 and at his service I helped lock his coffin and I went to the ceremony where they did a military burial service at Jefferson Barracks. I comforted my mom and my sister and my niece. But to this day I don't think I've ever properly grieved him. I get signals to listen to angel messages that I believe might be from him and they tell me he's proud of me and there's nothing to forgive, so maybe that helps me. But some days I feel like I might just be a machine that I can't even cry for my own dad. I just had my first AuDHD assessment session last week and my second will be in a couple of weeks. Should I mention this? Is this an example of that?
2026-07-02 00:04:54
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Julissa :
7-10 business days for me
2026-06-28 22:27:34
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Father Guido Sarducci :
I’m not sure how I feel about this
2026-05-19 00:24:12
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Nicole light :
Correct me if I’m wrong but I think that’s why we ruminate because I’m trying to get to the root of it and then I can figure out the emotion or conflict arising.
2026-05-17 17:04:57
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Tobi :
Literally me after my most recent breakup. I feel bad for feeling almost nothing and then after a little bit I got extremely sad.
2026-05-27 08:04:39
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Ijusswatch 🇨🇦 :
Ohh no….. how am I keep discovering myself thru TikTok strangers instead of my therapist 🥺☹️
2026-05-30 08:11:00
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