@anthonypillarella: Replying to @art.dkmk Piggybacking off your comment to do something I've meant to for a long time (thanks and/or sorry as applicable lol). . I put out this Social Skills Starter Guide almost a year ago, and I really need to know: How can it be better, and is it worth the $5? #socialskills #charisma #communicationskills #SelfImprovement #meetingpeople
ok I have a question. how do i check to see if my coworkers want to be friends or just coworkers without making it awkward
2026-08-20 18:44:08
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art.dkmk :
I struggle a lot with not knowing what to say and not saying enough because I don’t think whatever I’m thinking about has any value to the other person. The starter guide (particularly the section “how we connect: feelings, experiences, and values”, but all of it really) taught me *where the value is* in what I’m thinking about, and therefore what is appropriate and useful to say, and how to frame things so people appreciate them. It was a really simple change in perspective that feels obvious in retrospect, but no one had ever managed to explain it in a way that made it click before. It’s not like I suddenly became a skilled conversationalist after reading it, but I do feel like I understand how and why conversation works a lot better. I think Anthony’s starter guide provides a good base to build future skills of off.
2026-05-14 23:19:08
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ttttttttdhjehgfty :
I have tried to ask questions and it just didn't work and felt forced, often I know nothing about a topic and I know they aren't interested in other topics if bring up. I don't think such a person is a good friend for sure, but I still need to have successful interactions with such people. also I struggle with actually making friends as in hey let's hang out etc.
2026-06-13 04:51:49
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Ase Mimir :
Has the guide something more than your videos ? I'm quite new here but your content helped me a lot already, and your videos are always clear and neat. So does the guide add something, have something more, that we can't get from watching your videos/playlists ? 😊 oh and thank you for all your work ✨️
2026-05-20 14:04:39
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Anthony | How to People :
To anyone impatiently checking the comments for the question: it's "Is my Social Skills Starter Guide worth $5?"
2026-05-14 21:11:51
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taim ☭ :
is the starter guide a pdf?
2026-05-25 13:21:51
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