@realmaggiesterling: Very passionate about this. The loop must be broken first. The quest to fix and escape has to end. This stage takes a long time for most people. To fully surrender and accept and retrain the system. But once it does, the rules change and what used to be unhelpful (tools, belief work, emotional tool), start to be helpful because they are used from a different energy. But guided not by another person or a coach but by you and your intuition.