@eileen.lamb: Find this shocking? This is our life. Don’t have anything nice to say? Don’t comment. This is what childhood can look like for siblings of a child with profound autism. For Billie. For Jude. And before anyone says it: no, it’s not Charlie’s fault. We love Charlie more than words. He is not bad. He is not choosing this. But that doesn’t make it less traumatic for his siblings. It doesn’t make it less terrifying in the moment. It doesn’t make it easier to be the parent trying to keep everyone safe at once. This is why I advocate the way I do. Because families like mine need more than awareness that feels comfortable to share. We need help. We need respite. We need services. We need people to understand that profound autism affects the entire family. Even the siblings sitting quietly in the backseat.

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asdmum111
ASDmum111 :
That poor little girl and your older son looks exhausted. You are putting too much onto them, my heart breaks for them
2026-06-02 10:17:09
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mama_.hails
Mama hails :
Absolutely not, that is not fair to them or you.
2026-05-15 22:24:03
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sahwithjor
jordan :
Protect your daughter
2026-06-15 03:36:07
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shantilly000
⋆。𖦹˚.★ shantilly ★.˚𖦹⋆。 :
At what point do you make the decision to save your other children? Where is the line drawn at? This has got to be the hardest thing to go through. I’m so sorry.
2026-05-17 00:13:49
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kateisgreatee
KK :
absolutely not fair to the other kids
2026-05-17 17:46:42
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allymighthavedied
Ally Might Have Died :
Your older boy looks so exhausted 😟 the way he tried to step in to help his baby sis...I know he's had to grow up too fast
2026-05-18 14:08:00
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user5331873229
Carmen Glatt :
Nope. Not fair to the other kids
2026-06-09 02:27:51
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thatcaj
con 😛 :
Um this isn’t safe
2026-05-19 02:55:43
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misluciddreams
Rachel✌🏻 :
I was that sister once and I’m so happy these people on the comments are calling this out! I know it is extremely hard on the parents but sadly this is a breaking point.
2026-06-13 10:33:56
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anxietybutterflies
Blu 🖤 :
Glass child syndrome… I had to change sooo much of our life because of it.. even though I thought we were doing so well by my youngest because he also has profound autism. Never even thought twice how it would affect my oldest. Autism is not for the weak, you’re doing great momma.
2026-05-15 15:26:43
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amberallen74
Amber Allen :
I give words of comfort to you!! I am a sibling to a brother with profound autism. He is 22 now! What helped most was getting a bigger vehicle. My parents were able to separate us. (He was a hitter and thrower). He’d be in the middle row and we’d be in the back or vice versa. It will get better Mama. Don’t strive for perfection, only improvement!
2026-05-16 01:44:01
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thanksalotrachel90
ThanksalotRACHEL👩🏻‍🦰 :
That poor little girl.
2026-05-17 20:10:20
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makaylademers
🍓Makayla🍓 :
Off topic your son Jude is beautiful!! His eyes are amazing
2026-07-09 12:08:44
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linda_sophiep2025
linda_sophiep2025 :
Bless them all it must be hard xx
2026-07-10 12:13:49
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beautifullybrittle
Aims 🌛✨ :
Appreciate its budget dependent but would a bigger car be possible, one with three rows? Just to avoid this situation where possible? 🥺 My heart hurts for all of you in different ways. You can see the exhaustion on everyone.
2026-07-10 20:29:15
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ellswindlehurst
Ellie ♡ ☼ ꕤ :
The boy in the front at first looking at you constantly waiting for you to be on their side. As a teacher of children with ASD, you have got to draw a line to create safety for ALL of your children. Pull the car over and help him regulate, create a system for your car journeys that means all of your children and you are safe. Him throwing things could easily cause you to have an accident. Ignoring him won’t make it go away and I’m sure you’re exhausted but there needs to be safety for everyone
2026-06-12 15:45:30
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tatshitpost
T W :
i have an idea
2026-05-26 08:26:25
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fix_xx5
fi :
Traumatising everyone. Not ok.
2026-06-28 21:37:07
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gloom_.shroom
🥀 rose :
Yeah no I couldn’t deal with this
2026-05-17 00:41:52
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vickyd859
vickyd859 :
that poor little girl, this breaks my heart for her
2026-06-13 08:40:56
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