@vanessaandxander: What would it look like if women approached their own pleasure with the same confidence men do? In this episode we're getting into:
 ✔️ The mental blocks pulling you out of the moment, from body distractions, to-do list brain, and feeling selfish for focusing on yourself at all 
✔️ The technique gaps nobody ever filled in, including what to do if you've never O'd, can only get there solo, or can't bridge the gap with a partner 
✔️ The relational stuff that makes it even harder, from worrying about how you smell or taste, to redirecting a partner without hurting his feelings, to a faking cycle that's gone on so long you don't know how to stop 
✔️ What it actually means to think like a man when it comes to your own pleasure, and why every woman deserves that same sense of entitlement 
✔️ What the path forward looks like, whether you're starting from zero or expanding what's already working
 If your O has always felt like the last priority… this one's for you. 💛

Vanessa + Xander Marin
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ferpedrollo.ink
ferpedrollo.ink :
She must be the happiest woman in the world omfg
2026-05-21 00:48:52
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wan_dagler
Simply Dan 🇨🇦 :
This man is definitely speaking on my behalf.
2026-05-21 00:38:43
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lovable_weirdo
Lovable weirdo 🏳️‍🌈 :
My wife & I shower first. Hygiene is important
2026-05-22 07:49:32
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maggoo25
maggoo25 :
This guy should be our global spokesman.
2026-05-21 06:36:47
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itsteddybtw
T୧𝒅d𝒚 ᥫ᭡. :
smile of satisfaction and approval
2026-05-26 06:35:37
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nightshadetat
☀️nightshadetat🌔🇨🇦 :
My bf doesnt like it. I am very sad.
2026-05-23 14:13:53
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deenniss15
Dennis :
I wouldn’t care I would just be happy to be there
2026-05-20 18:43:22
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maui19831983
🪷🌸Mãŭï🌸🪷 :
omg im always so worried, self conscious so I don't
2026-05-21 03:04:36
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terryboudreau44
terryboudreau44 :
2026-05-21 13:35:39
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pho.lover.pl
pho.lover :
im w the wrong man haha
2026-05-22 01:50:17
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hoe_master_cracker
hoe_master_cracker :
We love it especially from the woman we love
2026-05-21 20:34:27
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ms.swoleshady
Swole Shady :
If I was Vanessa I’d LOVE hearing him answer these questions
2026-05-15 20:57:13
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happy_little_vegemites
Happy_little_vegemite 🇦🇺 :
Really I just find it hard to believe
2026-05-21 11:47:23
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coralreef_xo
Coral reef :
His comment is 😘
2026-05-20 21:27:09
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thepotatoking_01
👑🥔The Potato King🥔👑 :
THIS MAN KNOWS WHATS UP
2026-05-21 09:59:21
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hairygerry79
Gerry :
nectar of the Gods
2026-06-02 14:30:10
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jussi0809
Jussi Tuomainen :
Totally agree 👍
2026-05-22 04:33:29
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ang...2bcontinued
Angela Moreno :
my husband doesn't like it 😕
2026-05-21 03:21:48
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alexandroscharitou
Alex C :
Totally agree, nothing sweeter
2026-05-21 16:47:40
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cozydonsalind
Cozy :
He’s spitting bars. Couldn’t agree more.
2026-05-23 00:52:06
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g637354
G :
Some women he’s right. I DO want to bathe in it. Sadly some women it’s the complete opposite. The smell is horrendous and difficult to even get close to it with our mouth and nose. Therefore those women aren’t receiving ‘head’ often if at all. Someone needs to tell these women to have better care down there and maybe they get what these comments are saying ‘my husband never’…. Might be a reason for it. With that being said, if it’s a maintained one, I will live down there multiple times a day without question. 😏
2026-05-21 13:25:41
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fitsixzero
Fitsixzero 🇨🇦 :
that's interesting to know bc I wonder the same thing and always felt insecure about it.
2026-05-22 12:43:47
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t.alex071
t.alex071 :
Nothing more, nothing less…….
2026-05-22 15:36:35
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