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Sylvie :
He’s at milestone 3 rn. Only took him last than a month. He just texted me tonight saying he’s sorry for his mistakes and that he wishes he could make it up to me… should I consider that a breadcrumb or an actual attempt towards meaningful reconnection? I’m leaning towards the latter tbh
2026-05-15 02:55:28
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geminigoddess12 :
Day 55 of no contact. It's so hard. I really needed this.
2026-05-15 10:49:44
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Alex :
How long is no contact ?
2026-05-20 00:20:32
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Katevolution :
I'm so glad I'm past this. I went NC right away but thought about them daily. Literally every day. Then a little over a year later, it just stopped. I'm not even drawn to Attachment Theory videos anymore.
2026-05-16 07:41:58
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Christian T. :
so what happens after month 7?
2026-05-15 01:34:02
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£'mªnu€l 🤫🤪 :
Read Clear the Noise by Leona Vale if you're struggling with anxiety/racing thoughts. literally changed my life.
2026-05-18 18:42:05
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Kris A K 🇨🇦 :
do these still apply if you're the one that ends things with them?
2026-05-14 23:01:06
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Juice box enthusiast :
I think the worst part is that he just didn’t have the energy or time to give to a relationship. He said he never stopped loving me and that he does want me and didn’t want this but couldn’t give me what I needed basically, and that because of the lack of time and energy he can’t see himself in a relationship for a while. Originally when it happened he said he could see us getting back together he just needs time. Then he was saying that the distance is super hard and shit and basically we haven’t been talking but it hurts so bad and he seems so unbothered
2026-06-04 14:29:51
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jjoccelyyn_ :
I don’t know what to do anymore. I just recently found out that he has a girlfriend we were on and off and tried three times and we ended up lasting for a year and eight months but what I don’t understand and it breaks my heart even more it’s the fact that he has a girlfriend that he continues to look through my stuff.
2026-05-18 06:50:48
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sarahjane1390 :
He blocks me, unblocks me. Leaves me unblocked for a while. Blocks back. He’s consistently been blocked. Why does he do the block/unblock game?
2026-05-14 23:49:16
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xlimpinx :
Is anyone in a general support group with this ? Because we need to remind each other it’s not worth it.
2026-05-16 16:59:22
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Dr. Joseph :
6 months no contact. I don't even care anymore. haha
2026-05-20 07:10:35
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esteban_g_96 :
What happens in stage 3? Do we get back together?
2026-05-29 19:38:50
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Sandy :
yup, it definitely resets back to stage one "relief," and I didn't even contact him.. Only played a song that was visible because he played love songs the day before, and I know it was for me. Also, we should talk about how avoidants can actually project their avoidance on to anxious and they become FA. I'm starting to feel like I'm shutting down from everyone. I don't want to feel what I felt from him so staying away with in myself, I feel safer. Not expressing my feelings. Not showing how strong I feel for them or anyone
2026-05-16 14:31:47
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user2923954430364 :
I have saved two of your videos and I listen to them cause they help and feel supportive…I hate that now I can publish a whole thesis about this attachment style but it still means there’s nothing I can do to make any practical changes
2026-05-15 18:34:51
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Judson✝️ :
Is it normal for them to move extremely quickly in the next relationship like post them all the time love bombing that stuff does that mean we are done for good or just distracting herself from the truth thoughts ?
2026-05-15 01:24:39
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fabianleon_0 :
Your voice is so soothing.
2026-05-20 00:47:22
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Noemi🩷 :
it’s been one month and It’s getting better slowly one day at a time, i think about him less and less. I fear by month 3 is when i’ll truly over him and that’s when i think he will come back
2026-05-16 05:23:46
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Anjiro :
does this apply if they have new person right after our breakup?
2026-06-08 02:16:21
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Alex :
Needed this one. 10 weeks and 3 Days right
2026-05-20 00:21:42
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Tammy Ann Taylor :
I don’t care anymore
2026-05-16 15:00:22
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MariPatron :
she moved on and closed the chapter.. She isnt dealing with anything.. Wanted to propose on our anniversery man 25th of May..
2026-05-16 10:20:50
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brittani :
Thank you I needed to hear this.
2026-05-15 13:38:34
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𝓐 ♡ :
What if they come back
2026-05-19 23:13:04
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jameslewis5605 :
Been almost 1.5 years
2026-05-15 03:01:55
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