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winterchanie :
Yes, and it didn't help that I'm also tall (178 cm)
2026-05-15 12:22:28
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Emma :
Yep. It also didn’t help that I have PCOS/PMOS.
2026-05-15 12:06:11
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jem x :
Yes, AND I’m tall; took me a long time to feel comfortable in my feminity
2026-05-15 12:56:48
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Julia Errens :
Yes. Didn‘t even let myself explore more feminine presentation until my mid twenties.
2026-05-15 14:10:07
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Sofia Martinez :
yesssss. it was awful
2026-05-15 09:41:50
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madi :
my whole life. next question
2026-05-15 20:19:53
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Momo :
as a kid i was invited to a costume birthday party where they were providing the costumes, none of the costumes fitted me except for the santa claus one. you can guess how i felt. it’s one of the most vivid memory i have were i realised i wasn’t really one of the "girls", that i wasn’t one. even today i don’t feel like im a included with women.
2026-05-15 12:20:12
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codysteder :
Omg nobody understands when I try to explain this!
2026-05-15 19:39:37
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airperoman :
I was/am never seen that I can be pretty. When I dress well because I have a style sense and match everything, people I know give me compliments surprised not because I’m good looking but because I surprise them
2026-05-15 11:52:27
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Yaz :
Oh 1000% I still struggle with this
2026-05-15 14:11:33
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kris jenner :
yes, ive felt othered since forever
2026-05-15 11:57:39
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whatsinaname2.2 :
This x100 combined with being an eldest daughter = often left feeling I lacked femininity 🥲 (and still struggling now)
2026-05-15 21:26:14
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Lucia :
100% and I was the tallest girl on my class, I’m not 5ft8. I’ve never been seen as cutsy or demure 🥲
2026-05-16 06:55:44
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barbieagalagaesia :
yes
2026-05-15 09:32:24
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Irina A.| perfumes & beauty 💖 :
Yes, in terms of high school nobody ever got an eye on me, and being shy didn’t help.
2026-05-15 15:15:19
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🐌 :
been tall and fat my whole life and not frequently seen as feminine, yeah. worked fine for me being nonbinary and ace, but not knowing either of those things about myself in my teens, it definitely hurt
2026-05-15 16:29:54
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ARTENFE :
Yes I felt so out of place
2026-05-15 12:17:46
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Punkebass :
100% as i’m still overweight (working on it) but it’s been rough trying to reclaim my femininity
2026-05-16 11:51:38
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A :
omg sameee🫂 it has always frustrated me... and the comments, especially from family... it always hurts A LOT
2026-05-16 01:10:58
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Shumaii_ :
I used to be tall and skinny, but I started gaining a lot of weight when I was like 15 years old because of depression, audhd and a food addition I developed. there is a huge difference in how people treated me when I was skinny vs. the way I look now.
2026-05-15 14:59:06
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J 🐐💖 :
Yes. (I haven’t even watched the whole vid yet)
2026-05-15 17:10:06
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High.Priestess :
oh yeah 100%. on top of being 178 cm (about 5'10 ish) it means only sweaters, hoodies, loose shirts and mom jeans for the most part. Only recently started being able to wear slightly cropped shirts and softer kind of fabric pants.
2026-05-15 20:23:56
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Denoula :
I had the same experience back in the 1980s , now having grown older I care much much less about others' opinions 😁
2026-05-15 12:11:14
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lilib :
i still am
2026-05-15 16:54:16
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Lara :
Yes. And I leaned into it because I wanted to fit in. Very hard to unlearn after 15 years.
2026-05-16 15:01:48
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