@bxpica55o: One of the hardest things to realize as an adult is that some people are still operating from the environment that raised them. Survival mode can follow people for years. And if it’s never healed, it starts affecting relationships, communication, trust, love… everything. The scary part is when trauma stops being something a person experienced… and becomes who they are. Some of the behaviors we normalize are actually untreated pain wearing a personality mask. #trauma #abuse #southafricatiktok #communicationskills

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nurseselepe
nurse Madonsela :
Yoooooo I'm speechless didn't know what on earth have put myself into yoooo bhuti
2026-05-15 11:30:45
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risemzansi5
Ma I Buye I South Africa :
Wa bona recently you are on another level. You are cruising with wisdom. ✊🏾
2026-05-16 10:32:15
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makhosi.gida
makhosi Gida :
that's a saddest part when trauma became your identity
2026-05-29 13:57:34
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musam5463
MusaM 63 :
Very true 😢
2026-05-29 12:28:20
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ishekingk
ishekingk :
Deep
2026-06-30 05:52:21
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kgopa24
kgopa24 :
true
2026-06-27 17:06:48
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spleesh5
Spleesh :
Wow! Thats really Powerful "learning love" that really touch me🙌🙌
2026-05-23 04:30:50
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sdue8398
sdue :
Trauma starts from the womb. Its not easy to deal with a person who is dealing with trauma.
2026-06-23 20:24:42
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molebogeng_tau
Taugadi🐞 :
Yup
2026-05-17 13:33:42
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user7459981785139
user7459981785139 :
Do you write?
2026-05-16 21:30:05
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kabelotaylormad
Kabazela :
eish thats so true
2026-05-17 04:59:09
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mavee5078
MaVee :
Mr thanks 😊 for the explanation
2026-05-16 06:17:10
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fortunablelinks
noks_de hustler :
yeah we dont
2026-05-16 07:18:38
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828756238etd
@Smo💖 :
The reason I stopped dating is the same reason, I cant be around someone who cannot communicate..bcz I communicate whether light or deep let's do it
2026-05-17 13:26:28
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richie_orphan_comics
Richie Orphan Comics :
That a lot of people
2026-05-15 15:01:11
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tshepyprospers
Tshepy| Prospers :
volume
2026-05-15 16:27:12
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tumelojohnmoshane
Tumelo John Moshane :
on point poi..
2026-05-15 15:44:17
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spleesh5
Spleesh :
Learning survival is what we prioritize the most because of our back ground s
2026-05-23 04:32:41
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mafrimogotsi
mafreemogotsi :
Thus true
2026-05-15 16:05:45
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jowi527
user9037830871473 :
You are right my brother
2026-07-12 07:13:16
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duka4140
Duka :
Iyooo im learning
2026-05-15 16:48:16
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natasharose038
natasharose038 :
Finally someone said it....Yoh
2026-05-15 10:30:01
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yourwellnesstherapy1
your wellness therapy🌸 :
I hear people talking about communication, what kind of communication. There's a dysfunctional communication where people use harsh words, victimization and manipulation. So I decided whenever I see 1 red flag I cut people off, people do things very much aware. I am not teaching anyone to talk to me I leave and let people be comfortable as they are. Nonsense
2026-05-16 01:17:02
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miss.idgaf16
Miss IDGAF :
true
2026-05-15 09:43:23
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nomzamo236
ZeeWane💞🙏🐑 :
Ppl raised on survival can do anything to u ppl raised on love will do anything for u🥰 Givers n takers different mind set
2026-05-25 13:20:17
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