@bxpica55o: One of the hardest things to realize as an adult is that some people are still operating from the environment that raised them. Survival mode can follow people for years. And if it’s never healed, it starts affecting relationships, communication, trust, love… everything. The scary part is when trauma stops being something a person experienced… and becomes who they are. Some of the behaviors we normalize are actually untreated pain wearing a personality mask. #trauma #abuse #southafricatiktok #communicationskills
Yoooooo I'm speechless didn't know what on earth have put myself into yoooo bhuti
2026-05-15 11:30:45
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Ma I Buye I South Africa :
Wa bona recently you are on another level. You are cruising with wisdom. ✊🏾
2026-05-16 10:32:15
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makhosi Gida :
that's a saddest part when trauma became your identity
2026-05-29 13:57:34
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MusaM 63 :
Very true 😢
2026-05-29 12:28:20
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ishekingk :
Deep
2026-06-30 05:52:21
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kgopa24 :
true
2026-06-27 17:06:48
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Spleesh :
Wow! Thats really Powerful "learning love" that really touch me🙌🙌
2026-05-23 04:30:50
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sdue :
Trauma starts from the womb. Its not easy to deal with a person who is dealing with trauma.
2026-06-23 20:24:42
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Taugadi🐞 :
Yup
2026-05-17 13:33:42
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user7459981785139 :
Do you write?
2026-05-16 21:30:05
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Kabazela :
eish thats so true
2026-05-17 04:59:09
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MaVee :
Mr thanks 😊 for the explanation
2026-05-16 06:17:10
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noks_de hustler :
yeah we dont
2026-05-16 07:18:38
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@Smo💖 :
The reason I stopped dating is the same reason, I cant be around someone who cannot communicate..bcz I communicate whether light or deep let's do it
2026-05-17 13:26:28
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Richie Orphan Comics :
That a lot of people
2026-05-15 15:01:11
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Tshepy| Prospers :
volume
2026-05-15 16:27:12
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Tumelo John Moshane :
on point poi..
2026-05-15 15:44:17
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Spleesh :
Learning survival is what we prioritize the most because of our back ground s
2026-05-23 04:32:41
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mafreemogotsi :
Thus true
2026-05-15 16:05:45
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user9037830871473 :
You are right my brother
2026-07-12 07:13:16
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Duka :
Iyooo im learning
2026-05-15 16:48:16
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natasharose038 :
Finally someone said it....Yoh
2026-05-15 10:30:01
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your wellness therapy🌸 :
I hear people talking about communication, what kind of communication. There's a dysfunctional communication where people use harsh words, victimization and manipulation.
So I decided whenever I see 1 red flag I cut people off, people do things very much aware. I am not teaching anyone to talk to me I leave and let people be comfortable as they are. Nonsense
2026-05-16 01:17:02
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Miss IDGAF :
true
2026-05-15 09:43:23
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ZeeWane💞🙏🐑 :
Ppl raised on survival can do anything to u ppl raised on love will do anything for u🥰 Givers n takers different mind set
2026-05-25 13:20:17
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