No, she’s paying it back so she can stay sober. It’s part of her 12-step program. Let her.
2026-05-15 19:28:41
33
But Why??? :
I would tell her I forgive her and the debt, and if she feels morally obligated to repay, give her a specific charity amd ask that she make the payments to that.
It removes you from the equation and gives her the opportunity to clear her conscious without involving you in the process.
2026-05-15 12:57:35
31
crubpfel :
It's an amends.
2026-06-21 17:06:12
3
user474668094672 :
Great advice❤️
2026-05-31 11:55:35
5
labgirl16 :
let her make the payments. if they stop or are late, let it go. Use that money for charitable causes if you really don't need it.
2026-08-11 18:28:14
0
bubalew :
The insight of 90s Adam Corolla with the direct sincerity of Dr Drew 👍🏻 Best CC on TT
2026-08-08 03:10:12
0
JaLaSa :
I love that blue and pink shade on you
2026-06-28 17:05:23
1
Cutie :
I thought you were going to say to. Negotiate a number that your both comfortable with and accept her amends.
2026-05-27 15:51:17
2
Sonja :
You're wrong. She's in a 12 step program and in order to stay sober we need to clear our debts so thats why she's doing it, not because she wants to get back together with him.
2026-08-08 00:40:56
0
🧞DarkChocolateCandy 🍑 :
Agreed 👍
2026-08-12 17:38:52
0
Marti Tibbs :
Forgive her and the debt. I agree open a new account to hold the money if ever needing to get it back to her. But accept the payment but do not respond to avoid any false feelings she may feel
2026-05-20 16:45:37
1
Grace :
Amends is very specific language used in 12 step programs. Ask her if she is on step 8 :)
2026-05-19 22:14:32
8
user8426794663878 :
Yes get your money back. Let her pay you back
2026-05-15 18:34:08
6
user9602003259833 :
If the payments are large maybe say they can be smaller
2026-05-28 03:56:50
2
MamaBearEK :
It’s VERY important she pay the money back as part of her program, if she doesn’t or try’s to take a shortcut it can derail her entire program and lead her to drink/use. Take the money and donate it if you don’t want it, maybe a recovery center is appropriate.
2026-05-15 21:09:10
3
Spooky Gay Jay Dee Bee :
Perfect advice
2026-06-15 15:02:52
1
Thinking :
Good advice.
2026-05-16 00:37:40
1
Denise M :
Great advice!
2026-05-15 22:29:22
1
user2160231080097 :
I like that comment
2026-05-15 16:31:38
1
May J :
👏
2026-05-16 10:54:03
1
MsReev :
👍👍👍
2026-07-04 03:33:51
0
To see more videos from user @dctibbsesq, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.