@burned_notbroken: 1) take action: space does not mean you’re giving up. space can look like separating/moving out or tweaking schedules so you have more alone time and don’t talk about the relationship. not taking action and expecting things to change will deplete you further. 2) feeling confused or conflicted doesn’t mean your broken and need to be fixed. it makes sense that you are self-protective and can’t fully trust your partner when they say they’ll change. 3) you deserve to be in places and with people who help you like and love yourself. if you don’t, seek out new environments that light you up. #burnedoutpursuer #emotionalsafety #relationshipburnout #almostdivorced #relationshiprepair

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sm3llslikerain
sm3llslikerain :
is it possible to fall back in love after so many years of resentment and hurt feelings from empty promises?
2026-05-17 09:14:16
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Sweet Strays :
What if I have support system? It’s so hard! I don’t have family and friends. It’s hard to shift my focus away from this relationship.
2026-05-15 17:23:58
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xandi7633
xandi :
I’m currently giving my wife all the space she is asking for. I’m trying my hardest to create a space with 0 pressure, 0 expectations and peace. I am terrified that in the silence she will conclude that permanent space from me is what will be best for her. But despite my fears I am not panicking and bombarding her with my fears, thoughts and insecurities. I’m very much focused on myself, working on me, in therapy, working out spending time with friends.
2026-07-04 01:45:16
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anderkar22
Kari :
How long do you suggest to be apart?
2026-06-24 15:55:26
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embertv
EmberTV💙🌈 :
I have received my break. My space. It’s been two weeks and my brain just won’t kick start. I know I should be thinking things over or thinking about how I feel and there is just nothing coming. Especially when I am alone. It’s like my body has gone into autopilot. Did you experience this? Is this normal?
2026-06-10 18:05:35
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katiejanie11
kll :
what happens when you just don't care anymore but can't leave and you just accept this is what it is? do people do that?
2026-05-18 22:47:34
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thisvikingmama
Mrs. Mueller :
Girl... I have zero hope I can feel the way I used to.
2026-05-17 02:24:06
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darkmoore
Emma :
we have always been so independent and done our own thing. but as I get older (near 40) and now with 2 small children I just want him to join in. I want him to come to the kids parties (hes the only husband who doesnt come) i want him to come to the cafe on a Saturday morning with me and my friends and all their partners
2026-05-22 22:06:02
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amborambler
amborambler :
I watched your videos because I thought my ex and I were on hold, but turns out B this whole time she thought of us as broken up
2026-05-16 16:28:41
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amb0822
Amber :
Can I ask how your husband gave you space but showed you he was changing at the same time? I’m in that situation with my husband right now. I don’t understand how to show I have made the changes while giving him space at the same time.
2026-05-19 12:19:49
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munci639_2
𝓝𝓪𝓷𝓪 :
this is exactly what i needed to hear today
2026-05-15 16:21:07
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parkerjeff88
parkerjeff88 :
What if she decided to move 3 states away?
2026-05-27 23:45:15
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jen_the_book_friend
Jen :
How did you get your husband to understand the burned out pursuer concept, and to then take the necessary steps to get to where you are now?
2026-05-15 17:07:11
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amanda_myth
Amanda Myth :
How did you heal though???
2026-05-20 02:13:01
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diamondstreak888
DiamondStreak :
no I'm done and way past that, don't understand why I'm seeing this as my decision is made
2026-06-05 10:29:14
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fabioalessandro3101
Fabio Hegglin :
Could you recommend some books about the whole topic of your account ? Or any books in general related to this whole context ? Thank you!
2026-05-15 17:14:34
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2023ozzy
Ozzy25 :
Thank you. How can I show her the work I have put in?
2026-05-15 16:42:48
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wulflin
user1115507813249 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-15 19:19:14
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