@burned_notbroken: Replying to @Ozzy25 the hard truth is that you can’t show them anything - they must feel it. do until you feel confident that you can interact with them in a more secure, safe, and different way (not perfect, but healthier) I advise that you keep doing your work. if you have a chance to interact at that point, they WILL feel it. #burnedoutpursuer #emotionalsafety #relationshipburnout #relationshiprepair #breakuptok

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bayla_in_love
Kayla Renee372 :
hes been moved out for a week now. and I have just been following his lead. he text me first and if he ask to see me I say yes. hes the one that needed space to work on his mental health, so im letting him have it and praying he comes back
2026-05-16 01:12:13
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kenan.epps
Kenan Epps :
So if I initiated no contact and I was the one broken up with should I be the one the makes contact first? She wanted to stay friends but my nerves system was not ready for that and I kept pouring my heart out and repeating myself.
2026-05-15 22:34:39
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anothrstupidusername
AnothrUserName :
I think it's awesome you're paying it forward like you do.
2026-05-15 19:11:11
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superbenjami
Benjamin :
I am currently working on my self(avoidant), and in doing so i have learned the patterns that I have, that are unhealthy for the relationship. But in learning my patterns, I have also learned about my partners patterns(anxious) that also are unhealthy. I don't know if my partner is seeing those now in retrospect and working on it, and I don't know when or how I can tell my partner about the things that are typical for an anxious attachment style. I would like to repair, but I don't know if I can if my partner isn't seeing those and working on it, I'm afraid that I will be the only one changing, and I'm afraid that the partner will repeat the patterns. I am currently giving my partner the space, time, anything my partner feels is needed right now.
2026-05-16 11:00:42
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f.e.w.85
Felicia :
I made things much worse. trying to convince her she was wrong. then I realized nothing gonna change so I decided to leave her alone and maybe she will reach out. part of me still has hope
2026-05-31 21:01:12
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mandapandaax
Amanda :
Our communication is at a minimum right now. We initially broke up and then he compromised and asked for 2 weeks. I gave him the space and waited for him to reach out. I've been doing a lot of work on myself and I feel he sees a shift based off the comments he's made but we're still barely speaking. He told my family member "we're not meant to be together right now. We both need time." I'm confused on how he's going to see the work I'm doing and providing the emotional safety if he eventually stops responding to the conversations he started.
2026-06-07 12:30:15
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_addisonfaith_
Ads :
My boyfriend feels burnt out and needed a break today. He says that we are broken up but he also says he just needs space to heal. He said we would revisit after our freshman year of college. We have been together for over 2 years now. I don’t know rather to move on or to work on myself for hopes that we will get through this together eventually. I need help.
2026-05-28 07:07:44
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lovemybabies365
Mama of 4 beautiful babies :
He left a week ago I am giving his his space I let him contact me
2026-06-15 04:13:46
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nabdou_24
Natalia Abdou :
I’m the one that’s burnt out, and I recently separated from my partner for space to figure myself out, but I miss him and know I want to be with him, but I need to work on my part. I find myself wanting to talk to him to make sure he knows that, that I love him and want to be with him and that he does his part as well. Idk if that’s normal or what else I can do to work on what I need to do
2026-06-04 16:13:56
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lucywasiek
LUV :
hello, thanks for your videos.. i just dmd you ❤️
2026-05-17 05:22:51
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chopstickspapi
Alvin Santos :
If she hugged me when i dropped her off at the airport after weeks before she said she wasnt sure yet uncomfortable with my presence because of all the talks weve been having. Is this a good sign?
2026-05-21 11:23:20
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iamelijae
iamelijae :
we're no contact now. my leave order just got approved today. we have upcoming travel this June 15 which was already booked last year. should i reachout to her?
2026-05-26 03:11:03
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uhohsomethingwentwron.g
Abracadabra :
I’m leading by action, promises are only as strong as the actions that follow.
2026-05-27 20:35:33
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invaldi0
Invaldi :
Thank you for this; I reached out to you as well. this was one of the questions. I almost asked in that email.
2026-05-15 18:55:09
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kkc0018
Jinhyeok_kkc :
Skye 🥺
2026-05-21 04:26:16
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cesar.onan
©° :
Love it!
2026-05-15 19:26:20
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j_emilio_r
Emilio :
ty
2026-05-15 19:12:25
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cuteapplepieeee
Apple :
What if we are long distance, how can I show him
2026-06-20 23:08:28
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benflynn1
benflynn1 :
Mine is so angry all the time and I have been patient for a long time... She also reached out to someone else (a single Dad from the school) after we agreed to wouldn't do that.
2026-05-15 19:25:30
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ashcamxoxo
ashcamxoxo :
😂😂😂
2026-05-28 03:45:52
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lorischneider421
Lori Schneider421 :
♥️♥️♥️
2026-05-15 18:54:39
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