@anxiouslyalej: How to stop attracting avoidants ⬇️ → Stop people pleasing. It’s just socially acceptable lying. Develop the courage to be disliked and understand that putting on a front just attracts people want you for what you do, not who you are. → Stop closing the gap… When you feel distance, your instinct is to overfunction and chase. Emotionally regulate the part of you that is scared of him not stepping up. → Stop outsourcing your needs. You can’t ask him to love you in the ways you refuse to love yourself. Give yourself that love you want to receive → Stop abandoning yourself to be chosen. The version of you that betrays herself to keep him will only teach him to betray you too. You don’t stop attracting avoidants by finding a “better” man…. You stop attracting them by becoming a woman who can take up space If you read this whole caption, comment this emoji 💅🏼 so I know you’re a real one that pays attention to detail 👀 #womensdatingadvice #feminineenergy #relationships #avoidantattachment #datingadvice

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