@brains.secret: I hate when people say “If you love me, you will accept me as I am”. Loving you doesn’t mean tolerating your refusal to develop emotional intelligence and heal your dysfunction. If you loved you, you would do the work so people who love you don’t feel forced to walk away #brain #mind #psychology #mindset #neuroscience

L Lawliet :

I am never going to change myself again for someone

fleyerayame :

they will do disrespectful behavior and will expect you to love them still😭 how immature

Frieda :

Change your behavior when it hurts others, but never change your personality to please someone else.

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Orderis :

Fair enough! but just some thoughts, what if they have a big heart, and try to fix the dissfunction, every time with every ounce of energy that nobody sees but they fail time and time again, but cannot tell a soul crippled with shame and guilt but as usual try to let time brush it under and move on hoping they wont lose you, again!

♡hovnocuc♡ :

i wonder how does it work with self awareness and not lashing out about it

Bellatix_milo :

Couldn't agree more, because it start by loving yourself before being loved by your partner

520 741 8 :

honestly im not gonna change for someone ill grow with them but not change for them

rezrerez :

Loving someone means critizing each other to each other and talking good behind our backs

🌼 :

this, coz in my case i healed myself first before ill let him to my life but tf i would never tolerate his behaviors just because i love him, thats crazy haha

UGAAA :

True thing that most people dont understand 💯

Beautiful :

I don’t want you . I’m in love . Don’t ever disrespect my man

KOJIRO :

just to improve to the best version of ur self for the sake of you ...and everything follows

. :

that both make sense

🇦🇺 Sassyreflections :

been there, ascended from this absolute BS

GL Multiverse Core :

that's true!

Orderis :

Im sure that would be a cycle (a real phenomena) called a self fulfilling prophocy, very common in us acute sensory or perception disorders... we present quite normal, and we are, but consistency dwindles and out comes the acusatory wild cat, then comes the guilt and shame.. im 55 now.. i felt like the HULK after he came round, !!!!! only my self esteem was ripped and torn though.x

Niko Mesa :

Girl yes read this and heal 💫

Kristie Gergaia :

100% 🫶🏻

saturno :

amen 👏👏👏👏

Brian227 :

100%

三千年 :

より良いパートナーになるよう努力し続けることにこそ大人としての誠実な愛の形では🥰

Zayuri Onyx :

fr 💯🙌