Elly | Counseling Psychologist
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Saturday 16 May 2026 17:45:00 GMT
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Sara :
what confuses me is that person is okay with others in the household just not me.
2026-05-16 18:16:54
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MeikaMoon🌙✝️ :
I'm tired of understanding because then I continue to sacrifice myself in the name of understanding
2026-05-17 02:34:28
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susansab757 :
So how do you handle such adult
2026-05-16 22:15:44
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Mr. Kaplan :
this gives me so much insight, now how do I proceed to have the conversation with the person, because they can't seem to understand that their actions even if it's unintentional has impact on me, now I'm labeled, I'm emotional because I'm always trying to make conversation when I don't understand a behavior or feel offended for something they've done to me, I'm blamed for every even if a third party can see I was the victim, I'm still blamed by this person who will offend me when I react.
2026-05-16 23:56:29
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Serva :
This was so helpful 🙏
2026-05-16 18:34:35
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lovelife :
understand now why I am always the Scapegoat for my siblings.
2026-05-17 05:41:32
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Auckbro :
Possibly a sign that major issues have not been addressed and they don’t feel heard? It may look like not taking accountability because there concerns have not been even acknowledged.
2026-05-17 19:50:22
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Ben Davies :
Because they are perfect in every way!
2026-05-17 21:20:50
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Catherine Grainger :
You explain so well and make so much sense. X
2026-05-16 18:53:53
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messy :
my mom does this, the most simple of things too lol it’s exhausting
2026-05-22 11:58:42
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knite1000 :
im exhausted, i can't even talk to my wife.. im just silent.
2026-05-18 17:07:20
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iobservethingshere :
Your insights are amazing. Thanks for starting your TikTok 💖
2026-05-16 19:55:01
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Rhonda :
It’s seriously so sad actually 😞
2026-05-17 07:36:37
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Robert Bushnell :
because that's wot some people are in lfe
2026-05-17 06:28:40
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ItsmejustImary :
Does this also mean they still Apologize but it’s not serious?
2026-05-17 03:38:32
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peanut&harley :
I had no sense of self yet I still had to take accountability for my own burnout. my family refused to accept what they said and did durning my burnout, flipped it on me making burnout 100× harder and I was left alone no one to talk too.
2026-05-18 18:43:14
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RanaJLee :
This is my partner through and through, it’s been 3 years and I just can’t take now he is anymore.
2026-05-17 18:56:32
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T-Money$ :
While understanding the underlying cause, what can I do to protect myself. The more I tried sticking to the facts and not getting caught up in defending, he doubles down. This is the one thing that has been hurting our relationship, and it’s exhausting.
2026-05-17 14:01:40
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nelsontim :
My life
2026-05-26 14:46:15
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Lynett Genockey :
so what do we do, because we can't always be the one to accept the blame just to keep the peace, everyone has their own battles, why do others battles have to be prioritised
2026-07-17 11:26:23
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Sura Dabbas Dabbas :
yha true
2026-06-13 18:44:17
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Marcus ButteredVR :
so how do you handle it from adults people
2026-06-13 14:01:17
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pauline rose :
true
2026-07-06 22:03:10
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