@opallauryn: Why is it so many (men) derive validation through physical intimacy, while also refusing to show up for their partners in the day to day intimacy? The labor inexcusable. #mentalload #weaponizedincompentence #infidelity #cheating #relationships
I like how you are sharing with us all these discoveries love it when dday happened I started to just google what I was feeling and I learned SO MUCH
2026-05-16 23:21:55
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Mandy B. Beauty Travels ♿️ :
You just described my last relationship 💯
2026-05-17 08:50:21
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Ka’iana :
This is helping me so much. Thank you. I just feel crazy at home right now
2026-05-22 18:56:42
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R :
Mine wants to know when and where this burnout happened and I'm like its a ton of small stuff that built up over time and then turned into big stuff. I dont have receipts of the small thing. oh my god I swear every time you post it gives me more and more courage to leave.
2026-05-16 15:16:10
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Jackie :
I told my husband I hope that the next place we live he respects more. Specifically there is a drawer in our kitchen that will hit the stove if you just open it all the way. We have both acknowledged the drawer is slowly making the already poorly working oven worse as it’s hit so we should stop it. He asked “how is he expected to remember something like that?” Because we talked about it and both acknowledged an issue with the design therefore we had to adjust the usage of the drawer. What?
2026-05-16 21:20:14
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Jean-Marie Hammett✍🏻 :
I will never take responsibility for someone’s infidelity. I’ve been on both sides of the coin so, no excuses.
2026-05-16 23:20:38
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rosey :
You not alone. its happened to the most of us. co parenting now,but mostly is me Still do itttt allll.
2026-05-16 22:01:49
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MeghanRyan :
Oh my we had the same relationship. Except mine was 16 years. He asked for a divorce a month ago and then I found out he was seeing his co worker.
2026-06-04 02:41:40
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PropCap :
it is genuinely like we are living the same life. I carried our relationship and our home for 10 years, and when I suffered burnout and depression in the last 18 months of it, he immediately stepped out.
2026-05-20 05:47:13
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🦝 :
The validation is so triggering. Mine started attempting to cheat on me during what should’ve been our honeymoon phase. He told our therapist that he needed validation. We were having the most sex we ever had in our relationship. Have sex, don’t have sex. Monsters going to monster.
2026-05-20 14:31:13
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🤦♀️🤷♀️ :
Mine said you are using sex as a weapon
2026-06-19 05:39:40
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