@justaskjefferson: This is how to de-escalate an argument.

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cfab2345
CFab :
If my ex husband had even half of this mindset, we’d still be married!
2026-05-16 15:39:26
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sandiegodamon
Damon West :
You’re a better man than me…
2026-05-16 15:57:21
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dalkennedy
DalKenn :
Man here! I’ve found that the words “calm down” don’t have a calming effect. Cheers.
2026-06-06 12:58:03
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saucetowninvestor
SauceTown Investor :
Staying calm when the other person is yelling is a superpower👏🏻
2026-07-15 17:39:41
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thegroundedprofessional
thegroundedprofessional :
Validating how someone feels instead of telling them how they should feel can keep the conversation from becoming defensive.
2026-07-12 05:29:16
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scottyvr
Scott ✨ :
Validation first.. everything else is just words
2026-05-16 18:47:06
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rmfisher17
Mitch Fisher :
what do you do when you can't put it aside and need your wife to know she's misunderstood your intentions
2026-05-20 21:55:01
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joshuahoganbaines
Josh :
Affirming is NOT loosing! Check your terms!
2026-05-19 06:17:40
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tdunfiltered7
TD Unfiltered :
De-escalation starts before the argument peaks—it's recognizing the shift from disagreement to ego defense and pulling back before you both lock in.
2026-05-16 16:27:54
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fathersandsons2
Father And Sons :
You mean agree for a quite life
2026-05-23 15:09:11
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christy2131
Rowan :
This guy has so many good tips and techniques. I keep saving them but there are so many to apply to myself!
2026-05-16 18:11:39
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matthewriley870
Matthew Riley 🇿🇦 :
“Relieve yourself of your own opinions”
2026-05-23 20:07:21
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allenthealmightywang
Allen wang :
Why couldn’t this video come before we split 😭
2026-07-02 17:44:15
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humphreytheoodle
Humphreytheoodle :
I do this. It helps.
2026-05-16 14:14:57
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thetamind
Theta Mind :
understandable to validate however anyone feels to lessen tensions
2026-05-17 03:10:24
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mjg_000
mjg_000 :
True. U just want someone to listen & hear you.☺️
2026-05-17 01:22:59
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emily.k.hejselbak8
Emily K Hejselbak :
Ya the ture
2026-05-17 07:58:54
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sd4435
Sd :
What??!! Instead of "I need to win and she needs to lose!"
2026-05-17 23:17:56
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birdznbugz
Renee Hubbard :
You should have courses
2026-05-16 15:01:56
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emily.k.hejselbak8
Emily K Hejselbak :
I solo
2026-05-17 07:58:31
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luisenriquecubasoto
Luis Enrique :
I wish I could have done that I would probable be together
2026-05-16 17:41:15
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debhilemanmiller
Deb :
Wow. That is such a good guy. Death in me is life in others
2026-05-16 14:31:17
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babbelvoice
The voice :
😳😳😳
2026-05-27 01:06:20
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malrussell12
Mal Russell :
🤭🤭🤭
2026-05-18 06:16:43
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momskieskusina
Wuaning C. :
🙏🙏🙏
2026-05-17 02:14:33
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