@niqotinamide: I went to a lawyer to know my options. Unfortunately, the Philippine law has very limited, lengthy, and expensive options for failed marriages. #lettinggo #divorce

MAI⚓ :

I never thought the person I trusted most would betray me.

Dan :

I am the cheater. I wronged someone and went againts my own beliefs too. But I really want to become better, I don’t want to be that kind of person forever. Of course, I still want a happy, healthy, stable family in the future. It is hard for us too but if we really want it to last forever we should accept that everything’s not the same anymore and we should start over. With consistency of course! And extra long patience and understanding, we did this in the first place. We should do everything, EVERYTHING to make our loved ones trust us again, and we SHOULD NOT RUSH THEM in the process. It is definitely gonna be hard for the both sides but if we really want to, we will do whatever it takes, and the other end has to also give us a chance and see through our intentions. Help us help them. To give trust even just a pinch of it at first. And we will work hard to earn it again, make everything feel brand new again.

Prichia30 :

well said

unheard thoughts :

That doesn’t mean na kapag nagcheat na, uulitin ulit. Yes they are capable of doing if again, but what about the others that are eager to change? To not to hurt their love ones again. They are trying to change and redeem their self cause they know what they did is truly wrong. What if they want to be better this time? To not to feel that they are not safe with the same person who hurt them?

Roswell & Russell mom 🎀 :

this feeling killing me 🥹🥹

Oreo’s Cart :

Does it ever get better? ❤️‍🩹

rai.n :

I once read that a relationship should end when one person cheats. Not because people cannot change. They can. But sometimes that change is meant for the next person they love, not the one they hurt. Even if they are truly sorry and willing to do everything to make things right, the damage has already been done. Once trust is broken, every promise can feel uncertain. The person who was betrayed may always wonder, "If they lied once, what is stopping them from doing it again?" Cheating does not just break trust. It destroys a sense of safety and changes a person in ways they may not fully understand. Sometimes, that is the tragedy of it all. Two people may genuinely want things to work, but the trust that once made the relationship feel safe is no longer the same.

my.shieylaaaaa 🪷 :

they're trying, i know we appreciate that and see that.. but, we're trying too.. if only we can forget what happened, im sure we will.. nakakapagod ang sistema ng random sadness kasi kahit nasaan ka bigla nalang kakatok yung memories of what happened, maiiyak ka kahit na standing ka pa sa bus or lrt

🕷️ :

Jessieee ❤️ :

Just ended my almost 7 years relationship because of cheating 🥺 It’s been 2 months pero masakit pa rin kasi I trusted him with a heart that had no back up plan. I defended him when people had doubts and while I was protecting what we had, he was breaking it behind my back. 🫂

Rebecca Allen5167 :

It's about learning to forgive and moving on, not for them but for you!! im happier and meet my person because of what I did, forgive for me!!! ❤️

RB :

You hit the spot.

Gabby_Aries🖤 :

This is so true.... they blame you for not trying to move on

qtydezaster :

can't repost

loujanem97 :

Silent repost

RM :

“You start wondering if maybe something is wrong with you for still hurting this much.” Na kahit hiniwalayan mo na at pinalaya mo na pero yung sakit andito parin.

Halima Ashraf :

true

whoiam :

akala ko dati diko to mararanasan:((

mochi :

I realized that no matter how much you love that person but if the trust is already broken, it’s never going to work out. Just save your mental health and walk away.

Jazzy9873 :

So true 🥺

jo_oy_r :

silent repost

meg :

Indeed

Kathlyn Alika :

Minsan okay, minsan hindi :(( magkakaroon ng sudden breakdown haysss