But when I'm single, I become a different person, and not a better one, but a self-destructive one.
2026-05-17 12:50:31
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alicia.on.topp :
Not if it’s the right person!!
2026-05-16 18:41:38
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miss.kaelle :
Tiktok I need advice, Im not diagnosticed yet but my symptoms couldn't anymore more oblivious but since January I’ve been talking to a girl, it's going pretty well, I mean it's kinda safe……even if I told her that I might have BPD, she didn't really react, she didn't know and said she'll just make research. I don't know if I should be doing romantic relationship or not, especially when she is a bit avoidant but she's honest. Every time I tell myself I will stop, as soon she text me back I fall back in like I didn't just cry abt letting her go. Is that really healthy?
2026-05-16 19:23:48
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Adri :
I jus realized I have it but I flip really bad internally like this when im in relationships
2026-05-16 20:24:50
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Blackhart :
I was in a relationship with someone who has BPD...it breaks my heart to see someone suffering like this for having BPD. The world owes you an apology, not you to them. For me, it was never a problem or something she had to apologize for.
As a FP and if you decide to have a relationship with them you need to be aware that you have a responsability over their world and how they interpret even the tone on your voice.
I educated myself to try to understand and make things a little easier, or rather, gentler, for her.
And no, it wasn't about walking on ice. It was more like being aware of how deeply she experienced the world, and wanting her to feel okay with it. That's all.
2026-07-12 00:13:35
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sage.skyl3r :
I feel you girl.. trust me.. I’m better alone than with someone. Everytime I have someone my symptoms worsen and worsen till I spiral into an episode I feel I have zero control over..
2026-05-16 17:57:29
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Cupofviolets :
I dont like being alone, but realitionships hurt... I get attached too quickly.
2026-05-17 12:10:50
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dannikatanner :
hey guys just remember we weren’t shown love properly when we were kids so without therapy we’ll never understand love or cope with loss later in life
2026-05-16 21:43:07
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Kat :
I’ve accepted the fact I’m unloveable
2026-06-14 19:12:56
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Rose :
I get a crush and it's over for me.
2026-05-18 17:51:04
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panemelone🍈 :
the duality of craving a deep human connection but hurting like crazy in relationships kills me
2026-05-17 22:52:13
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💥Crystal Ann💥 :
Ironically my boyfriend helps me through my BPD symptoms
2026-05-17 03:54:30
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🍰yun yun ૮꒰˶ - ˕ -꒱ა :
just crying nonstop💔💔
2026-05-16 19:37:45
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Es Raa :
He's actually so sweet, the sweetest!
but I'm the problem
2026-05-29 08:10:23
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mxbzusksos :
I split immediately, my brain doesn't even give me the time to cry
2026-05-16 21:33:06
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C A L L I E :
Just remember you do spiral from intense emotions but you don’t spiral for no reason someone has triggered you or hurt you. Just because you feel things deeply it doesn’t mean to say it’s always your fault 🫶🏼
2026-05-17 08:34:41
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Industrial_dude :
Girl what did you even say
2026-05-17 00:40:57
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₊˚ପ⊹ Marls :
If I don’t have anyone to talk to then I don’t have the possibility of getting attached
2026-06-11 22:39:31
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seleniariveraperc :
SAME
2026-05-18 00:04:47
1
Habiba :
What did she say?
2026-05-16 18:42:54
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PrincessNorway 👑🇳🇴 :
It heals you if you find the right one ♥️
2026-05-18 20:30:53
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maria :
Also situationship, dating... In general, if I start liking someone a little more than "yes he's cute, funny...", I'm in trouble
2026-06-09 11:26:42
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Pete Zuh :
Been on my longest single streak because of this
2026-05-16 18:27:20
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1d.nialler ❯❯❯❯ :
I got lucky my bf majors in psychology/counseling 😭 he’s open minded
2026-05-21 03:46:25
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