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ARREE1969 ❌ :
May I ask about your children? I just don't know if I can, or how?❤️
2026-07-10 12:55:40
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Leigh :
I think it’s hard for people to wrap their heads around the fact that in the snippets we see of you, you look beautiful, you’re still communicating effectively and you don’t “look” like what they think someone with Alzheimer’s looks like. It’s also scary for people our age to see a peer dealing with a terminal illness….brings our own mortality into focus. Personally, I just think you’re awesome and I love that you share your life and your decision with us. I cannot even imagine how scary this must be, but know that a shit ton of strangers appreciate you and wish you nothing but the best.
2026-05-17 16:01:50
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Auntie Lola 🇨🇦 :
Have you tried…..
2026-05-17 03:07:55
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moelinty :
I have long covid…lung damage, cognition issues, heart issues, extreme fatigue etc for 4 years now. I am chronically ill and leave the house mainly for doctors appointments. Even my Doctor will say that I am looking good when he knows how sick I am. I think people just want to say something positive to us not meaning to ignore our invisible sickness…I used to be feel upset and angry now I’m just glad to receive a compliment. God blessings to you it’s not an easy journey you are on 🤗♥️☘️
2026-05-17 04:59:34
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Beverley Kotak :
I have fibromyalgia and neuro cognitive impairment. People don’t understand how tired you get it. I just think they don’t understand how much pain you have
2026-05-17 04:51:52
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Sara Sunshine 🇨🇦 :
I relate to this so much. I have MS, Hashimoto's, Fibro, ME, MCAS, and likely EDS. What is super irritating is how on my main social media my friends only will show support if its a positive post. If I am trying to see the good when feeling like shit half the time. But when I was showing sadness and frustration about losing my mobility at times, losing my business, having to drop out and give up my nursing dreams I couldn't even get a thumbs up. Because it was uncomfortable for them. People just don't get it until it happens to them. I get it but I shouldn't only get support when Im trying to trick my brain into loving my life.
2026-05-17 07:05:29
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Julie :
Always know : the people that matter get it and understand what’s going on. I can see it so obviously some posts some not but I know you are unhappy and are not living your life without assistance which is so hard for a strong independent woman. People are just C. U. N. T. S Bec don’t let them bother you. Make the most of each day fuk off to the idi0ts I say. Some people feel like they have to say something but really just shut up. Much love and hugs for your friend in NZ xxxx
2026-05-17 03:27:23
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Maggie :
sending 🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️many hugs 🫂
2026-05-17 16:37:12
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Castiel :
I think one of the hardest things is that a lot of the cost is paid after the fact. Masking and adapting are both exhausting, so no matter what, I'm wiped after functioning. Nobody sees me falling asleep standing up in my home, or hobbling around in pain, because that always happens in private. This stuff is LONELY.
2026-05-18 18:06:46
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anniem_ohcanada :
Sweet lady. Your courage inspires my soul. Move forward as safely as possible. No person can tell your story except YOU. Stay brave or whatever you need to do❤️
2026-05-17 03:46:16
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Kat Fisher :
I love your page ! I've never felt this not alone and I relate to so Many things most important ppl (and non) " why ...what's wrong with you " it's a constant stigma of age and invisible disabilities so much respect 🥹🤗 so much respect to you and THANK you for making/sharing your life experiences with the world
2026-05-17 12:54:40
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Amanda :
Having an invisible illness is debilitating. Nobody understands. They think you’re fine but it’s the hardest struggle.
2026-05-19 07:13:12
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Bernie Bowden Mackey :
So what can we say that’s helpful
2026-05-18 21:57:07
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KTSV23 :
I FEEL SEEN! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-18 00:25:26
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Jeni 🌺 :
So much love to you, you strong beautiful woman. ❤️
2026-05-17 04:32:03
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KImberly Urysz-Valade :
Thank you for sharing Rebecca. ❤️
2026-05-17 15:33:08
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Megs :
I have never met you but you are a superhero. You are so bare and honest. It is a privilege to follow your journey. You are a true inspiration to so many of us. All I can do is send you a hug and huge respect.
2026-05-17 16:50:23
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Manique Inglethorpe :
❤️this tugged my heart strings becos I would find everything you just talked about hard ...
2026-05-17 11:52:21
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VineFloralDesign :
Yeah buddy it's so hard. Now I have had an invisible disability for over half my life and it is super hard. Bipolar is no joke. Although it's not constant the medication is so horrible. The hardest part of my disability is being held accountable to times where I have no ability to control my mind. It's terrible having an invisible disability.
2026-05-17 20:02:49
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M.Ogilvie 🇨🇦 :
Oops! My whole life. It’s painful to even have family not understand.
2026-05-17 23:44:38
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Stella Heliconia 🇵🇸♿️🌈🍁 :
I feel like a different person than I was before… I get that part of this. Also the masking … i used to be so independent. I want people to know I’m struggling because I need help, but I don’t want them to use it against me in any way
2026-05-17 13:09:57
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katandbugs :
I get it. I know they think they’re complimenting us, but it’s extremely frustrating. We want to just be understood.
2026-05-17 13:54:46
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lee Shirley :
My illnesses are invisible 🫥 i have people say , You dont look sick like you should go around looking the part hell im dying is that not enough 🫣 Im always praying for you Bec 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
2026-05-23 16:07:54
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Tina Marrie :
Totally understand. I cry too easy and it stays with me. It's hard to talk too and just be heard. I had a hard time yesterday, it was the first time losing time, confused about what day and why the hell is it already dark outside. I remember my grandma on the phone trying to tell my mother how she feels and hearing my mom annoyed, bothered and s burden. yesterday I went through the same thing.
2026-05-17 16:39:36
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Crafty Anna's Hobby Hearth :
My MRI is in less than 2 weeks. Dr agrees something is wrong. Im 66 so borderline early onset. Bad day today. Feel like im losing my mind. Cried most of the day. Im not a person who takes naps, but took a 3 hour one today. Thankful you're her. It helps me.
2026-05-18 04:23:33
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