@the_control_code: “He’s never hit me” is the wrong measuring stick. The hitting isn’t where the abuse begins — it’s the enforcement of the control that was always there. Full breakdown + the strangulation data on Substack soon. Link in bio. #coercivecontrol #thecontrolcode #postseparationabuse #BookTok #dvawareness​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

The Control Code
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lisahammond13
lisa💗 :
Where were you in 2019…. 🥺
2026-05-17 17:50:31
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beauthentic70
Rising beyond trauma :
Your content is so good! Thank
2026-06-16 10:39:04
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findthelight22
Dawn :
Please continue to educate women.
2026-05-17 12:10:34
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mkillian9305
Megs :
Thank you for educating people. This is so important.
2026-05-17 14:48:21
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katbruner
Kat Young :
I can't express how important these post are. Thank you for shar❤️
2026-05-17 18:32:16
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zoeylovescake
Zoe T :
I wish I was taught more awareness from a young age. I do think secondary schools should include classes about safety in the world, body knowledge and positivity and a basic understanding of finance and managing money. Children are so delicate and pure, it’s mostly the environment that they grow up in, the information that they are fed, that do not allow children to be taught actual facts, before making decisions. At least then, they will have actual information and knowledge of resources, to guide them towards making better choices for themselves.
2026-05-17 23:53:16
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sabamdandia
sabamdandia :
YAAAAAS QUEEEEN nailed it! 🔥
2026-05-18 04:01:06
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pris_west
Pris West | Good Time Girl Pod :
Glad you are taking care of yourself❤️tysm for your content!
2026-05-17 05:30:37
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naledi.darling
Naledi Darling :
Why the need for control in the first place?
2026-05-18 02:02:44
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sassafrass23
Sassy :
This is such crucial information for women
2026-05-18 01:20:58
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girlthepoet
GirlthePoet :
Do you do one on one meetings?
2026-06-07 12:20:44
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lakendrianacole
Lakendria Nacole :
Thank you for educating us! This video makes me feel more seen and understood
2026-06-19 18:39:02
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marthadenisealsto
marthadenisealsto :
Teach. preach, over and over again.
2026-05-17 19:51:22
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dammitcoco
𝓒𝓸𝓬𝓸 🪞 :
It’s heavy stuff. 🩶
2026-05-17 20:56:08
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cyndy11111
Cyndy :
I just love you! Your content is so helpful! Thank you!
2026-05-18 06:15:05
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usermorkivagen
You dropped this :
thank so much you the only person i ever heard who clearly defined this
2026-05-17 22:50:36
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hilarye.randall
Hilarye Randall :
Thank you sweetie ❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-21 13:26:36
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kristinarb84
KristinaRB 💜🇨🇦🇺🇦 :
Took me far too long to realize this 💜 thank you!
2026-05-26 18:33:31
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kookoo2816
kookoo2816 :
“This is the visibility of the control that was there the whole time”
2026-05-17 05:37:48
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sacredwhisperer
Victory :
the isolation from friends and family. I don't understand how he managed this. No one believes me
2026-05-17 11:34:56
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maggietheexmo
Maggie :
When they say "why didn't she leave" like they haven't spent years teaching us about physical abuse and NOTHING at all about coercive control 🙄 It absolutely steams me
2026-05-17 14:04:21
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pokedmyheart
pokedmyheart :
thank you so much for your content 🙏❤️please keep speaking out when you can. so many people, including many therapists, are so uniformed about this.,therapists can do a lot of damage minimizing non physical abuse and even gaslighting
2026-05-17 05:08:13
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killjoymenace
Noe🔻🇵🇸🇸🇩🇨🇩 :
also look out for their definition of justice. if they believe in retribution and revenge in the face of conflict instead of de-escalation, run!
2026-05-17 16:17:19
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francescaventioux
Francesca :
Also many contexts won’t allow physical violence but will tolerate deadly emotional abuse
2026-05-17 07:07:28
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