@kim_r_b: I know this usually comes from how you were raised or what you was taught and learned. I’m sure there are going to be different opinions. What is the correct answer, do you make sure your husband eats first because he is the one that goes out and works to support you and the kids. He’s the head of the household, the bread winner, the man of the house. Or do you make sure the kids eat first? Because they are kids and they are growing and need that nutrition. Depending their age do you serve them first because they are kids and you want to make sure they have all they need first before you all eat. Do you serve them first cause they are just innocent kids and can’t do it themselves? SO AGAIN WHO DO YOU SERVE FIRST, HUSBAND? KIDS?